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Guy tagged with alot of female on facebook. What vibe does it give off ?

I was talking to this girl quite abit on facebook who I really like. Just got back from 3 days in Nottingham to chill with a friend of myne.

Whilst in Nottingham went to a ton of parties and got tagged in multiple photos with girls I barely knew.

Then I noticed the girl I was talking to previously barely wanted to talk to me and lost interest ? Now it could be she met someone else or just was no longer attracted me or she thought I was someone who wasn't serious ?

So Girls of TSR can you be put off a guy by a facebook profile ? if it looks like he always with different girls ? or is that something that would make the guy seem even more attractive that hey this is a popular person?

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Reply 1

Phoebe Buffay

Of course it would be off putting. It makes you look like you're trying to be a 'player' and that isn't attractive

Reply 2

Ff96

Definitely a huge put off!

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Phoebe Buffay

Of course it would be off putting. It makes you look like you're trying to be a 'player' and that isn't attractive

How many photos before you would think someone is a player ? Wouldnt you say something rather than just assume im a player ?

Original post by Ff96

Definitely a huge put off!

But girls were not interested in me when I had no female friends ! its not like im kissing girls all are family friendly photos in different living rooms or clubs.

Reply 4

Ff96

Original post by Anonymous

How many photos before you would think someone is a player ? Wouldnt you say something rather than just assume im a player ?

But girls were not interested in me when I had no female friends ! its not like im kissing girls all are family friendly photos in different living rooms or clubs.

This is how I would see it (purely a personal view) - this guy knows a lot of girls, I'm clearly not the only one he talks to like that, he's probably flirting with several girls - that's just me :/

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by Ff96

This is how I would see it (purely a personal view) - this guy knows a lot of girls, I'm clearly not the only one he talks to like that, he's probably flirting with several girls - that's just me :/

well thanks I appreciate the perspective !
How could I change that ? anything I could say ?

Reply 6

Ff96

Original post by Anonymous

well thanks I appreciate the perspective !
How could I change that ? anything I could say ?

I would like it if he made it clear he was interested in just me haha, and he slyly dropped it in conversation he's not one that talks to several girls, that he finds it pointless etc

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Ff96

I would like it if he made it clear he was interested in just me haha, and he slyly dropped it in conversation he's not one that talks to several girls, that he finds it pointless etc

What if she doesnt like me :P I am terrible at reading people
How about something like recall xyz incident I like how you are so caring/mature/funny/classy unlike other girls ??

Reply 8

Ff96

Original post by Anonymous

What if she doesnt like me :P I am terrible at reading people
How about something like recall xyz incident I like how you are so caring/mature/funny/classy unlike other girls ??

It's better you tell her now you feel now tbh, and if you're uncomfortable with that, openly flirt, and see if you are *gasp* friend zoned :facepalm:

Yess you can do that, girls love being told that they are not like other girls, in a good way! :lol:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by Ff96

It's better you tell her now you feel now tbh, and if you're uncomfortable with that, openly flirt, and see if you are *gasp* friend zoned :facepalm:

Yess you can do that, girls love being told that they are not like other girls, in a good way! :lol:

What I can say that would be flirting and testing the waters ? So far all we do is make fun of other people and talk about uni

Interesting

Reply 10

AnharM

Original post by Ff96

It's better you tell her now you feel now tbh, and if you're uncomfortable with that, openly flirt, and see if you are *gasp* friend zoned :facepalm:

Yess you can do that, girls love being told that they are not like other girls, in a good way! :lol:

Loooool Iffath, when did you start giving good relationship advice to guys? :laugh:

Reply 11

Ff96

Original post by AnharM

Loooool Iffath, when did you start giving good relationship advice to guys? :laugh:

Hahaha shut up! :angelblush:

Reply 12

Ff96

Original post by Anonymous

What I can say that would be flirting and testing the waters ? So far all we do is make fun of other people and talk about uni

Interesting

If you find that your convo is all banter, try and slyly compliment her on a photo or something, and then there's always dirty humour which you can direct towards her :lol:

Reply 13

AnharM

Original post by Ff96

Hahaha shut up! :angelblush:

Original post by Ff96

If you find that your convo is all banter, try and slyly compliment her on a photo or something, and then there's always dirty humour which you can direct towards her :lol:

''dirty humour'' :laugh:

Reply 14

Georgiina_Tee

No, looks like he's a bit too popular with the ladies and would be the type to cheat or be talking to multiple girls at once in my honest opinion. If you mention it to her it would be different

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Reply 15

user1048814

It would make me want to stay away as he gives off a "player" vibe.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by Georgiina_Tee

Original post by Ff96

If you find that your convo is all banter, try and slyly compliment her on a photo or something, and then there's always dirty humour which you can direct towards her :lol:

so if I tell her she has pretty eyes she will get the hint ? Some guys like every every female profile picture I never doo that seems too desperate.

Reply 17

Ff96

Original post by Anonymous

By that logic shouldnt guys with plain profiles get the most message. Why are girls always more intresting and eager to talk in person but on text or fb never start new conversations or topics and seem busy ??

so if I tell her she has pretty eyes she will get the hint ? Some guys like every every female profile picture I never doo that seems too desperate.

Noticing a certain feature of hers is really good. I remember how nice it felt when I was told I had pretty eyes. And noo, like her pictures!

Reply 18

hollieeilloh

In my opinion, if a girl is 'put off' a guy for how many Facebook pictures he's tagged in with girls, that's pretty petty and in turn (if I was the guy) would probably put me off the girl. For example, I know plenty of guys tagged in lots of photos with female friends - who are just friends. I'm tagged in 3000+ photos on Facebook, doesn't mean I'm a player or speak to lots of guys. I really don't think so much attention should be placed on Facebook photos, OP I'm sure this isn't the reason the girl seems to have lost interest... :tongue: