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Do most hetero-sexual couples find the Man: Dom, Woman: Sub dynamic in the bedroom

the most attractive? Women, do you prefer to be Dom? Men, Sub? Do you think that the dom-sub dynamic changes in the LGBT community?
Looking at studies, most people don't have a sub/dom dynamic in the bedroom...

I'm not sure I understand the last question.
There is a theory that the more dominant you are in life, the more submissive you are in the bedroom (and vice versa) because it's a chance to relax and be different, losing your inhibitions or whatever. It holds true to a degree, but I don't have a preference of how I'd like it to be although I know some people do prefer it a certain way. To be deep; if you don't mind being either, but the partner you're with want you to be the dominant one; is he/she the dominant one by making you the dominant one...????
Can you elaborate on your last question?

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