What ways are that women can 'win' men?

Like the general idea I'd that men attract women by looking good/nice hair, trying to be strong, brave and sporty along with being 'cool'/valued by peers. What, apart from looking good are ways for a woman to be the 'top woman' and 'win' a man?

Looks aside it's by being vulnerable and endearing, no normal man is attracted to confidence, dominance or heroism, these are all male power fantasies.

I can understand not being attracted to dominance as people don't want to be controlled in relationships but what's wrong with bravery and and confidence. Surely these factors are healthy and good.

Looks aside it's by being vulnerable and endearing, no normal man is attracted to confidence, dominance or heroism, these are all male power fantasies.

You've got to be a pretty fragile man/ meninist to be intimidated by a "confident" female.

If you are a woman and by default cannot win a man.

You gotta be god damn ugly. And I mean God.

And that says all you need to know about men.

I can understand not being attracted to dominance as people don't want to be controlled in relationships but what's wrong with bravery and and confidence. Surely these factors are healthy and good.

I never said I'm against it, but I don't care. A woman bragging about her confidence is like a neckbeard bragging about how nice he is, it's simply an irrelevance and to talk about it shows a level of self-entitlement which I do find irritating.

I never said I'm against it, but I don't care. A woman bragging about her confidence is like a neckbeard bragging about how nice he is, it's simply an irrelevance and to talk about it shows a level of self-entitlement which I do find irritating.

Pretty sure l'entranger has a weak sense of masculinity. He can't stand the thought of a female bettering him. Most alpha males look for confident, productive and successful women, although balanced out by other traditional feminine traits.

What even are you on? Women (or people in general for that matter) don't tend to tell other how super confident they are. This is usually a judgement others will make of that person.

Ah ok you sounded against it at first, it's just confidence gets people far in life doesn't it. Bragging about confidence, we weren't talking about that but yea bragging is annoying. If someone is good at something others will see it regardless.

Looks aside it's by being vulnerable and endearing, no normal man is attracted to confidence