I think I've figured out why most girls are "shallow"

If you look at it all from a Biological point of view, we Humans are animals and thereby have animalistic traits. And in the animal kingdom, the aggressive and big animals are the ones that are dominant (Excluding Humans who are dominant because of technology). Now, a female animal will always try and chose the biggest and most aggressive mate because it will increase the chances that their offspring will survive since the male is dominant over all the other males. Now, apply that same logic to Humans. Girls are "shallow" because they want (They're programmed by their genes to want) the tallest and most aggressive mates (boys) so that their offspring will be protected from other competition etc.

I think this makes sense. Girls don't want the weak guys with nice personalities because their offspring won't have guaranteed survival. Although, society doesn't involve men killing other men just to get with a female and so almost all Human offspring aren't at risk of getting killed by male competition. But still, girls have been programmed to want the biggest mates because we are still animals at the end of the day.

tl;dr : Girls are shallow because they've been biologically programmed to want a male who can protect their offspring

But then surely men are shallow too because they only want the "pretty girls" with wide hips and big boobs- which are indicators of good fertility.

I am willing to take one for the girls team and accept a guy with a nice personality. You're welcome girls 😁

This isn't a new idea lol

But then surely men are shallow too because they only want the "pretty girls" with wide hips and big boobs- which are indicators of good fertility.

Girls don't want the weak guys with nice personalities because their offspring won't have guaranteed survival.

Now, a female animal will always try and chose the biggest and most aggressive mate because it will increase the chances that their offspring will survive since the male is dominant over all the other males.

I want to know why girls are generally attracted to taller guys? Same concept?

East Asian girls have almost non-existent hips. Doesn't stop guys from being attracted to them, though.

Another thing, do you think big boobs are really an indicator of fertility? Cause there was a theory that said something along the lines of "guys like bigger boobs cause they can feed babies easier and have more milk" and that was proven to be a myth. I don't think there's any correlation between the size of boobs and hips and the number of babies being born. China is the most populous nation in the world, but their women have narrow hips (for the most part). See what I'm getting at?

Says who? If you pick a guy who's truly aggressive, they're going to abuse you and your children without hesitation. There are worse things than death, believe me. If you pick the most aggressive person you can find, they will attack indiscriminately.


Then why aren't all animals big? Shouldn't they be homogeneous if all the females mate with the big males? That's a sign they don't. Common sense.

Another "nice guy" who's salty about not getting girl friends lol. Like I mean I haven't ever had a gf but I don't make threads on the internet complaining about that. Yeah attraction isn't about being ****ing nice and you ****ing know it. You've gotta be confident and assertive. Obviously that can cross into dickhead territory so yeah it's careful line to tread.

Male : Female
masculinity - femininity
Dominance - Submissiveness


East Asian girls are stereotypically submissive ... a feminine trait, that is why they do well with guys

East Asian men are stereotypically lacking somewhat in masculinity and dominance, most likely this is why they generally find it harder to attain wider appeal.

femininity seeks out masculinity, masculinity seeks out femininity
Submissiveness responds to Dominance, Dominance seeks Submissiveness

true maybe..

however intelligence is overrated [in terms of it's appeal to women]

the low intelligence looking guy here would do better with women than the boffin looking one


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Hey, you've got it down to an exact science, don'tcha?

tbf your theory has a lot of psychological evidence to support it, mainly to do with evolution and the fact that height seems to equate to strength, which guarantees emotional and physical protection.
but ofc we now live in a more civilised society where women don't necessarily seek protection from men

Domestic violence and marital rape has only been criminalized relatively recently. Something to think about...

If intelligence = money and money = food/stuff, then sooner or later it may be possible that intelligence is more desirable than aesthetics?

Yeah. Taller ones could probably get the higher grapes or something when we were cavemen.

fair point but i don't think that's down to society, it wasn't considered a social norm