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    How are you feeling? In the party spirit or are you working hard? Tell us!

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    And I have a 9am translation theory seminar tomorrow which unsurprisingly im not feeling atm :hide:
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    :woo: I'm alive. And well. Good stuff
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    Just had the most beautiful nap so feeling alright!
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    I just feel so alone no matter what I do. Sometimes I wish I was a girl tbh. They tend to more often have friends they can actually unload on. I don't really feel comfortable unloading too often on male friends. Once in a while when hammered can be acceptable, but make it frequent and you look super weird. I'm just too emotional to be a guy, tbh. If I was socially allowed to I would cry a lot more than I do. I just am so goddamn sensitive to things. And I translate it to anger because that's all a guy can do. And it makes me super annoying to be around. No matter how much attention or validation I get though, I still feel alone. It's an insatiable desire. I just don't seem to fit in this world. Nothing I do seems to be correct or work out. In one sense I hate myself, in another I think I am great and hate others for clearly thinking otherwise. I don't know what to do, I really don't.
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    Bored, tired and hungry.
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    (Original post by starfab)
    :woo: I'm alive. And well. Good stuff
    :ahee: That's the spirit!

    Slightly annoying that I'm having to manually quote from the last thread, but here goes

    Embracing the change
    yh not so easy
    I'm generally awake at this time . . . Ji han, tiny tiny steps
    Definitely!
    Ikr But we try our best - that's the main thing :yes:
    Awww that's fair enough. Those tiny tiny steps will get you there :yep:

    I did try to sleep for a whole hour before I got bored.
    :rofl: "a whole hour" Next you'll be saying "a whole minute" :toofunny:
    Need to try for longer than that :slap: Any activities you can do to help you sleep?

    Feeling like chicken ****- don't want to go outdoors whhyyy did that have to happen? Walking cleared my head and now I don't feel like it and if I do go I'm just going to be wary and scared.
    That had become one of my new coping mechanisms and I hate that it's gone
    Oi :jumphug: You shouldn't feel scared - what you did yesterday was amazing - try not to dwell on it like that :no: Is there anyone who you could take with you? You could also try walking only on the main roads/in busy areas - I think you might be more comfortable then. Ofc you should avoid the dark - especially if you're going alone.

    It's not gone - where there's a will, there's always a way :yep:
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    The thing is, since I have no balls, I have to keep on living. I just wish I would grow a pair. But no, I will complete my degree, go back home and try and fail to get a job. And my parents will keep letting me stay as they are nice. And I will keep being a burden, a parasite, a child.
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    (Original post by math42)
    The thing is, since I have no balls, I have to keep on living. I just wish I would grow a pair. But no, I will complete my degree, go back home and try and fail to get a job. And my parents will keep letting me stay as they are nice. And I will keep being a burden, a parasite, a child.
    I'm also quite timid. It's like your saying to yourself in a situation, I'll do it right now I'm going to do it. Then you have a strange gut feeling at the same time and you don't do it because you're so scared. Do you find it daunting to think about moving out in the future and having to maintain a FT job?
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    (Original post by Black Water)
    I'm also quite timid. It's like your saying to yourself in a situation, I'll do it right now I'm going to do it. Then you have a strange gut feeling at the same time and you don't do it because you're so scared. Do you find it daunting to think about moving out in the future and having to maintain a FT job?
    Yes, because I'm not even going to get a FT job let alone maintain one. Literally my options are professor, death, homeless, in order of preference. So I have to try for a P.H.D. and if I don't get it, well, second preference. But probably not, cos I have no balls, which brings the third into play.
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    (Original post by math42)
    Yes, because I'm not even going to get a FT job let alone maintain one. Literally my options are professor, death, homeless, in order of preference. So I have to try for a P.H.D. and if I don't get it, well, second preference. But probably not, cos I have no balls, which brings the third into play.
    I highly doubt you'll end up homeless. I know you can get a FT job and maintain it, it's just the matter of getting used to it and getting rid of your social anxiety. That's a good idea, maybe you could go for a PhD if you don't want to go into employment that quick. Personally, I feel like you're most likely going to stay in university for a PhD. At the end of the day, the time will come when you'll have to maintain a FT job.
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    I was so confused until I realised this is a new thread 😂😂😂
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    New thread so going to just copy and paste your post from the previous thread Kevin Hodge


    Make sure you take the time out to rest your mind and your body as well as eat and drink. If you don’t get better soon do make sure that you see someone about this. Inshallah you get better soon Thanks It was really weird as it was the first time it ever happened. I just didn’t feel hungry and every time I tried to eat I just couldn’t. I had to eventually force myself to eat
    Ok I tried my best today to eat well but I just didn’t feel good all day for some reason
    I defo need to get a blood test or check up done soon tbh. It’s like I have no pain but I just didn’t feel well and I was just forcing myself to be happy all day when reality is I wanted to just be alone in my room,not outside- I didn’t want to talk to anyone (but I didn’t show it). It’s my appetite that’s making me feel like this honestly. I’m usually energetic and now 😐

    That’s so sad I’m glad you got better though and wow you’ve just described me! That’s how I feel now. I am forcing myself to eat most of the time!
    I don’t even know if I’m making any sense rn.
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    New thread so going to just copy and paste your post from the previous thread Kevin Hodge




    Ok I tried my best today to eat well but I just didn’t feel good all day for some reason
    I defo need to get a blood test or check up done soon tbh. It’s like I have no pain but I just didn’t feel well and I was just forcing myself to be happy all day when reality is I wanted to just be alone in my room,not outside- I didn’t want to talk to anyone (but I didn’t show it). It’s my appetite that’s making me feel like this honestly. I’m usually energetic and now 😐

    That’s so sad I’m glad you got better though and wow you’ve just described me! That’s how I feel now. I am forcing myself to eat most of the time!
    I don’t even know if I’m making any sense rn.
    I’m sorry to hear Best thing would be to go have it checked out and see what’s causing it. I hope you get better soon :hugs:

    Thanks It’s not a nice feeling to have. You just never feel hungry
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    I can't sleep at the moment because my mind is racing and I feel jittery. I got a major operation in a couple of months or so with a long road of recovery and rehabilitation ahead.

    Literally counting down the days and bricking it. :rofl:
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    (Original post by Kevin Hodge)
    I’m sorry to hear Best thing would be to go have it checked out and see what’s causing it. I hope you get better soon :hugs:

    Thanks It’s not a nice feeling to have. You just never feel hungry
    It’s ok
    I’m not going to say it but I just went through something so bad rn and I’m feeling worse.
    My mum was right, she noticed my eating was not enough and I knew it but was denying it. Thanks let’s hope insha’Allah because rn I feel like dying.

    Very true, I know exactly what you mean
    Also I’m sorry to say all this negative stuff on here and making others read all this, it sounds so bad! I should probs stop.
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    not going well. i have so much to learn and revise yet im not doing it. 😭😭
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