Am I right to be mad at my boyfriend about this?

We were playing a game of dirty truth or dare just for laughs, but one of the truth questions for him was "would you want to be in a porno movie?" and he answered yes...
I told him it would be like cheating on me and he said he would still want to.

This annoyed and upset me a lot because he's basically saying he would sleep with someone else whilst being in a relationship with me. Or that I'm not good enough for him.

I've tried bringing this up to him and he just says he would want to "because he's male"...

Is he being a pr*** or would most guys in relationships like to be in a porno movie?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

I’m not sure if it’s with all guys but that was a **** move to be honest. Even if he did he should of kept it to himself. You should of replied same and saw his reaction. Lol that would be funny to see. Plus I feel like guys use “because I’m a male” too much it’s annoying. Not saying all guys but it gets on my nerves. He should of considered your feelings. I hope you find a man that doesn’t say he wants to be in a porn video “because he’s a man”. You deserve better.

On a totally different note I would of called him a pornstar from them on 😂 idk it just makes me laugh like why would you want your body to be exposed. People could make fun of you or pull it up and shove it in your face. Your future jobs are ruined. I would of laughed at the idiot.

Sorry hope you sort it out

Reply 2

UWS

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You said it was just for laughs. The scenarios are hypothetical/fantasy based so by asking those kinds of questions, you're really setting yourself up for a mixed bag of answers. Not saying playing truth or dare is bad, but you should probably take his answers with a pinch of salt.

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Nazzzz

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I feel like guys use “because I’m a male” too much it’s annoying. Not saying all guys but it gets on my nerves. He should of considered your feelings. I hope you find a man that doesn’t say he wants to be in a porn video “because he’s a man”.

On a totally different note I would of called him a pornstar from them on 😂 idk it just makes me laugh like why would you want your body to be exposed. People could make fun of you or pull it up and shove it in your face. Your future jobs are ruined. I would of laughed at the idiot. It’s all jokes don’t take it all to heart.

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Reply 4

Anonymous #1

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Original post by UWS

You said it was just for laughs. The scenarios are hypothetical/fantasy based so by asking those kinds of questions, you're really setting yourself up for a mixed bag of answers. Not saying playing truth or dare is bad, but you should probably take his answers with a pinch of salt.

I understand where you're coming from but I think if you're in a relationship with someone then you should learn more and more about each other as time progresses? Truth or dare is one way to see people's true colours...

But idk, he's a lovely guy otherwise, I'm just concerned about his answer..

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

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Original post by Nazzzz

I feel like guys use “because I’m a male” too much it’s annoying. Not saying all guys but it gets on my nerves. He should of considered your feelings. I hope you find a man that doesn’t say he wants to be in a porn video “because he’s a man”.

On a totally different note I would of called him a pornstar from them on 😂 idk it just makes me laugh like why would you want your body to be exposed. People could make fun of you or pull it up and shove it in your face. Your future jobs are ruined. I would of laughed at the idiot. It’s all jokes don’t take it all to heart.

Yeah he often says things like "because I'm male" or "because I can" and I'm like ummm that isn't really an answer...
But he also sometimes labels some of my behaviour as being "because you're female"... it's kinda annoying but I don't think he means it in a bad way..

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UWS

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Original post by Anonymous

I understand where you're coming from but I think if you're in a relationship with someone then you should learn more and more about each other as time progresses? Truth or dare is one way to see people's true colours...

But idk, he's a lovely guy otherwise, I'm just concerned about his answer..

I understand that the answer upsets you but I don't think that translates to how he truly feels about you. I don't get the whole "because I'm a guy" thing to justify it though.

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DrawTheLine

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Would you have rather he lied to you instead?

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

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Original post by DrawTheLine

Would you have rather he lied to you instead?

Of course not, it's the fact he would consider doing that in the first place...

Reply 9

UWS

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Original post by Anonymous

Of course not, it's the fact he would consider doing that in the first place...

So either way, there's no pleasing you. You're asking some pretty risky questions and he gives an honest answer, yet you're not happy about that. Him saying "yeah I'd like to feature in a porno" doesn't mean he's actually going to do it. I suggest next time you play truth or dare, avoid questions that might make you upset.