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I feel irrelevant :(

So i used to date a girl in school and she was my true love, but we broke up a while back. Shes moved away now... not too far, but that's besides my point.

So i message every month or so to see if shes okay and doing well... obviously i still have feelings for her. But i never get a message to see if i'm okay from her or ANYTHING.
It just makes me feel like another irrelevant boy she dated... do i keep messaging her or is it a waste of time

Reply 1

Blackberryjam

my guy, don’t be letting any girl make you feel like that. she obviously thinks she’s the sh**. i’ve had this happen to me and i idk if i’ll ever fully get over it, but you can’t let her get in the way of your life. Move on my guy so many better girls that will treat you with the respect you deserve

Reply 2

username2387497

Sorry to hear about this man, it's her loss.
Id say to stop messaging her because she's not interested I'm afraid.
You need to forget about her now and move on and find some more amazing people!
You'll find someone more amazing than her, probably quicker than you think too!

But the one thing to remember is:
You are not irrelevant!