Personally I think that the concept of attraction has been thrown around so much it's been corrupted. To me my boyfriend is the most handsome guy ever even though most girls don't like him (i.e. big ears, too skinny, etc.) beating yourself up over whether your boyfriend is 'attractive' or not only creates insecurities on both sides, or at least that's what I've realized anyway. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. I don't care what other people think of him because it's our relationship and other people's opinions are irrelevant (at least, physical attraction-wise). Good luck with this guy - I hope you have/had a good date!