I decided to commute during my first year of university, mostly because at 18 I didn't feel ready to move out and live with complete strangers (I was a very very anxious teen, barely even recognise the old me now tbh!). I drove in to uni which is a much more appealing option than public transport to me because I knew I had the ability to go into and out of uni whenever I needed to and wasn't constrained by train/bus timetables. I didn't hate the commute, I just made sure I made extra effort to make friends on my court and went to a couple of societies to make friends, so if I wanted to go out I stayed with friends. I definitely did miss out a bit on some parts of uni life in first year but for me it was the best option, I saved a lot of money too. But a year was enough for me, and I moved in with friends id made for second year. My biggest advice is commuting to uni is totally a legitimate option as long as you know what to expect, and you make sure you are prepared to make extra effort trying to make friends as you don't have the halls environment. But then again, lots of people I know didn't get on with their flatmates and ended up making their closer friends on their course, which is no different to the situation you'd be in with commuting!