I’m acc upset rn. All I ever wanted was to have a good university life away from my parents but I can’t do that. My mum wants me to go and and come back for university and I’m really upset by this. I tried to explain to her but it would lead to arguments and me crying and her shouting her *****y lectures saying ‘it’s dangerous’ and that there’ll be rude people there and I’m not cut to stay there and saying I might get bullied there. And since I lack friends and don’t socialise. But can’t she sees that I’ll be happy making friends there? I really don’t want to commute but I’m scared of my mum really (she’s strict African) so I have to do what she wants ig. I’m really sad cause all my work buddies are leaving to university and I’m the only one staying there which is not fair. I am the adult as well but she would always put me down when it comes to living there. I guess the only ‘good’ thing is that I live close to it ig (30 mins by train) but still I really want to stay there and have the uni live I really wanted, I want to socialise, party without her being in the presence of everything. I hate her so much.
Does anyone commute too? Was it good though? Cause I’m really don’t see the point to be happy.