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Boyfriend watches porn

littleflowertots

is this normal? even if you have a sex life?

Reply 1

filipw

no it's not break up with him t

Reply 2

Constantine2019

Original post by littleflowertots

is this normal? even if you have a sex life?

Yes it is. Now you go watch some porn too.

Reply 3

xoxAngel_Kxox

The guys who don't watch porn just haven't been caught.
My partner watches porn.
Heck, so do I.
But that doesn't mean we don't have a healthy sex life, too.

Reply 4

1582

Volunteer Team

Absolutely normal and not even just for men. Even in long-term relationships I've watched porn to get off outside of a couple setting and I'm a woman.

(edited 5 years ago)

Reply 5

UnicornGlows

Original post by littleflowertots

is this normal? even if you have a sex life?

It depends... how often is he watching porn?

Men watch porn regardless of being in a sexual relationship. It is normal but to an extent i guess. If he is addicted to porn and sex and playing away then no its not normal.

Reply 6

londonmyst

Many guys and girls do have an interest in porn videos.
I'm not one of them.
Hardcore porn with violence or girls dressed up to look like very young children particularly disgusts me.

Different preferences for different people.
Some people like gambling, heavy exercising, watching football, healthy eating or religion.
If you feel very uncomfortable with porn, let you partner know and consider whether your relationship is really based on compatible personalities or shared values.

Reply 7

Tootles

Original post by littleflowertots

is this normal? even if you have a sex life?

Yes.

Reply 8

Ninomi

Yes.
My ex and I watched porn together on multiple occasions as well as separately

Reply 9

RLinds

Original post by littleflowertots

is this normal? even if you have a sex life?

yes, if it's not obsessive.
why don't you watch with him and share it?

Reply 10

A Rolling Stone

Original post by littleflowertots

is this normal? even if you have a sex life?

do bears also s**t in the woods?

Reply 11

littleflowertots

Original post by CollectiveSoul

do bears also s**t in the woods?

you tell me

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

he might be getting tips

i know it sounds weird but i watched porn before having sex then carried on watching it after i started having sex because i wanted to learn techniques etc so that i could use them on my boyfriend *blush*