Boyfriend advice?

Okay so first of all how old are you? Why wouldn’t your parents allow him? Have you tried and talked relationships in general? Second of all. My advice is if you have fear of intimacy/sex make sure your bf knows that you want to take things slow. Don’t rush into anything. Being intimate with someone even if you love them, can be really hard especially in your situation. Maybe start by getting to know your body more ( exploring aka masturbation). If your Bf really is a great guy, he will understand everything, and slowly you’ll trust him enough to do intimate stuff.

first question: I have no idea since it's never affected me

second question: think carefully whether having a boyfriend is truly that important to you...... if it is more important than the guilt of hiding it from your parents then go ahead as normal.... if it is less important then don't continue and tell him the whole situation..... from what it sounds like he would understand but there's obviously the chance that he doesn't understand but what's the worst that could happen if you do break up with him? you could still remain friends at the end of the day..... anyways it's up to you just weigh out the importance of everything then make a decison

He says it doesn't matter and perhaps it will change with time.
My parents are very protective (I'm 16 turning 17 soon) and would think I would do things with him when I I definately wouldn't and so perhaps would make me feel uncomfortable or even ask me to end it???