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My boyfriend hardly has sex with me?

bethany2020

We’ve been together for 1yr 3 months now, and he doesnt really seem to be interested in having sex anymore. I feel like whenever we do, its just to please me and not him/: I know hes self conscious of his body and so am I.

Reply 1

Bio 7

Low sex drive probably.

Reply 2

Igotbbcalevel

for real . maybe he's had a bad experience.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Does he watch a lot of porn?

Reply 4

bethany2020

Original post by Anonymous

Does he watch a lot of porn?

no he doesnt watch any

Reply 5

HoldThisL

probably a combination of lacking confidence-suppressed sex drive, or a naturally low one anyway

not necessarily a problem but he'll probably need some encouragement

Reply 6

Foxehh

Some people just dont have a high sex drive.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Did he used to have a higher sex drive but it has decreased or has he always been not very interested in sex?

Reply 8

bethany2020

Original post by Anonymous

Did he used to have a higher sex drive but it has decreased or has he always been not very interested in sex?

When we first got together it took a while before we had sex regularly, and then about 5 months into the relationship we had regular sex and he’d be the one to make the first move. But the past 6 months or so its always me that makes the first move, and we have sex maybe 1-2 times every 2 weeks/: He seems to enjoy it when we do have sex but I just dont think hes very confident in himself?