no sex nearly a year

in 4 months its going to be a year i have not had sex and im female. i am a good looking woman and get a lot of attention and i am horny, but it just has not happend. i am effortless with these things. im 24 years old by the way. do you think i should be more sexually active? especially at my age. also how long has it been for you :smile:

Reply 1

Drewski

19

Original post by Anonymous

do you think i should be more sexually active?

Do you want to be?
If yes, then fine.
If not, then no.

If you haven't worked that out by the age of 24 something's wrong...

Reply 2

HoldThisL

21

half of this forum is like you but don't get lots of attention

Reply 3

Justvisited

19

Original post by Drewski

Do you want to be?
If yes, then fine.
If not, then no.

If you haven't worked that out by the age of 24 something's wrong...

Lol, you start pretending to be non-judgmental and end up being judgmental, lol.

Reply 4

Drewski

19

Original post by Justvisited

Lol, you start pretending to be non-judgmental and end up being judgmental, lol.

I'm not pretending to be anything.

What OP does / who OP does / how often OP does is only their business.
Acting like there's some quota that someone should get is pretty dumb.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

how long has it been for you :smile:

I'm a 25 year old guy and I haven't had sex in over 5 years.

Reply 6

DrawTheLine

22

Original post by Anonymous

in 4 months its going to be a year i have not had sex and im female. i am a good looking woman and get a lot of attention and i am horny, but it just has not happend. i am effortless with these things. im 24 years old by the way. do you think i should be more sexually active? especially at my age. also how long has it been for you :smile:

A lot of people are not having sex at the moment due to the virus. If you want to be more sexually active then do so, but that isn't for us to say. Do what would make you happy.

Reply 7

Khanthebrit

20

8 months for me. Welcome to my world.

Reply 8

asif007

19

Tbh I have no sympathy. My last time was over a year ago and it was only twice with the same woman. Before that, 4 years since my last girlfriend. 4 months is nothing and I’m sure plenty of people out there have had much longer dry spells than that.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

the whole point of this thread was to understand how sexually active people are at the age. im getting stupid quotes if you want to do so if not dont. im asking for opinions.. jheez

Reply 10

HoldThisL

21

Original post by Anonymous

the whole point of this thread was to understand how sexually active people are at the age. im getting stupid quotes if you want to do so if not dont. im asking for opinions.. jheez

im afraid what you got is opinions and answers to your second question

Reply 11

The RAR

21

A lot of guys these days are too intimated to hit on a girl, fearing they might get slapped, called out, screamed at etc...
If you want to get laid, you have to make it very obvious that you want it too

Reply 12

squeakysquirrel

20

Original post by Anonymous

in 4 months its going to be a year i have not had sex and im female. i am a good looking woman and get a lot of attention and i am horny, but it just has not happend. i am effortless with these things. im 24 years old by the way. do you think i should be more sexually active? especially at my age. also how long has it been for you :smile:

I don't think this is abnormal - sex can go through feast and famine. I got divorced after a very long marriage and it was definitely a famine for a while.

Got married two years ago...... still good, very good

Reply 13

Anonymous #3

Original post by Khanthebrit

8 months for me. Welcome to my world.

22 years. Beat that. Well actually that's a somewhat weird way to put it because the first 16 years of my life don't really count. Ok 6 years.

Reply 14

username2825764

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Original post by Anonymous

the whole point of this thread was to understand how sexually active people are at the age. im getting stupid quotes if you want to do so if not dont. im asking for opinions.. jheez

Reply 15

Possibly this

18

I remember when I hadn't had sex for well over a decade, 4 months is nothing to worry about.

Reply 16

ChrisW99

14

Have you not met anyone attractive enough?

Reply 17

Anonymous #4

This is totally fine. I'm also considered to be an 'attractive' male (ew. i don't believe i just said that about myself but here goes) and I'm 26. I've had a 1 year break before and I'm on one now (8 months in). The reason is that I've had a lot of sexual encounters and was sleeping around so much at 22 and then again at 24. The first break was because I was not over my ex and the one now is because I felt disgusted from the fact that I wasn't forming deep connections with those people.

My goal now is to wait even if that is going to last 1, 2 or 3 years until I find the right person and even then, I don't want to jump into it from the very beginning.

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