She randomly ghosts me

She's keeping her options open

So i’d say i’m in the mid-late talking stage with this girl and she’s done this twice to me now. She will be very active on all social media’s but will just ghost me for like 2 days and I have no idea why, not just 1 social media but all of them.

So one day things seem to be going so well we reply to each other every 1-4 hours generally and then boom she’s just ghosting me and when she replies she doesn’t say why but carry’s on like nothings happened. Also I know she isn’t really busy because of how active she is on social media she probably has an 8 hour screen time or something.

I’m new to relationships so i’m not really sure what to do. Should I just let to be or should I ask her if Iv annoyed her? Because when i’m annoyed I do ghost people. Or idk perhaps she’s talking to another guy and he’s just better than me. Please let me know what I should do?

Personally, it might just mean she doesn’t care about the conversation as much. I’ve done that, but usually with people or convos that do not capture my interest so I procrastinate replying.

For guys I’m actually interested in, I would never not reply for 2 days.

Or she might just be busy - you can’t really judge that by their social media presence.

I think I might just double text her and if she doesn’t reply in 4-5 hours i’m going to cut my losses and move on. I’m a bit crushed really, but I can’t really do much I guess 🥲

"mid-late talking stage with this girl"
Maybe this assumption is the problem - do you both share what seems to be, for you, a journey of 'stages'. Are your assumptions about relationship formation the same? If that's even what's on the cards. Maybe her perception is based on some different assumptions. Maybe you should ask, discuss.

So on google it said to go exclusive you wait 2-3 months and I will planning on asking her to go exclusive around the 2 month mark which is in about 2-3 weeks. I’m just getting these assumptions off google to be 100% honest. That was generally my plan.

That's such a flaky source of information. What does Google know of this specific person? People are not generic commodities, they are individuals with widely differing ideas, assumptions and needs. Your source of data should be her. Listen to what she says. Try to communicate your own thoughts clearly too.

So i’d say i’m in the mid-late talking stage with this girl and she’s done this twice to me now. She will be very active on all social media’s but will just ghost me for like 2 days and I have no idea why, not just 1 social media but all of them.

So one day things seem to be going so well we reply to each other every 1-4 hours generally and then boom she’s just ghosting me and when she replies she doesn’t say why but carry’s on like nothings happened. Also I know she isn’t really busy because of how active she is on social media she probably has an 8 hour screen time or something.

I’m new to relationships so i’m not really sure what to do. Should I just let to be or should I ask her if Iv annoyed her? Because when i’m annoyed I do ghost people. Or idk perhaps she’s talking to another guy and he’s just better than me. Please let me know what I should do?

I do this to people no matter how much I admire them. In my case it doesn't mean much, she might just be the type to get overwhelmed easily.

What should I say to her? How long do you think the talking stage should be??? Obviously said in a more entertaining way but essentially that?

That’s fine and all but why doesn’t she just tell me. She just does stuff and leaves me in the dark guessing and if I ask her she doesn’t like to talk about it. I normally tell her stuff i’m going to do so she isn’t left in the dark. I feel like there’s a communication issue but i’m not sure how to solve it.

So i’d say i’m in the mid-late talking stage with this girl and she’s done this twice to me now. She will be very active on all social media’s but will just ghost me for like 2 days and I have no idea why, not just 1 social media but all of them.

So one day things seem to be going so well we reply to each other every 1-4 hours generally and then boom she’s just ghosting me and when she replies she doesn’t say why but carry’s on like nothings happened. Also I know she isn’t really busy because of how active she is on social media she probably has an 8 hour screen time or something.

I’m new to relationships so i’m not really sure what to do. Should I just let to be or should I ask her if Iv annoyed her? Because when i’m annoyed I do ghost people. Or idk perhaps she’s talking to another guy and he’s just better than me. Please let me know what I should do?