Just read through this and I am really happy that you aren't!
I imagine that it was quite frustrating to have come on here looking for advice and instead to have received lectures from everyone. Here is some information that may be useful to you going forward, that I found very useful at your age:
- You
do not need to inform your parents that you are getting contraception or an abortion, you can do it entirely quietly if you have the right sexual health clinic (if you're in London, I believe this should hold true for most clinics). I was able to get an IUD fitted at 15 without the knowledge of my parents, which made me feel safe from family judgement. My fitter was male (they gave me an option on whether I wanted a female fitter, but I didn't mind). He talked me through the whole process and ensured I was CERTAIN about the method. There was a female nurse there at the time as well, to keep me at ease. That said, I HIGHLY recommend that you don't go for a contraceptive method that is so invasive if it's your first. I was a virgin when I got it fitted, it was extremely painful, it moved out of place and had to be REFITTED multiple times before I eventually gave up on it and switched to the contraceptive pill (a method that I recommend if you can be consistent!)
- Precum is something to be cautious of, yes, but accidental premature ejaculation should be more of a concern in regards to pregnancy fears. It's more common than you'd think!
- There are a number of online sexual health information services available. Inform yourself and you will feel much more confident if any issues arise in the future
Good luck and stay safe!! I hope you found some of this information useful