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Why Cant I find one

Im 18.

Looking 4 a relationship.

I am currently using Wizz. Girls do want to go on a date w me but not really my dream. My dream is a blonde with blue eyes. I am light brown skin with black eyes.

I do believe its possible however the girl that is on WIzz r the cool ones. I know its possible but dont know where to find one.

My college only has 30 girls but none of my type mentioned as I live in Lond.

I heard that some people find it on SnapChat but since I only have been using for 3 months and not a lot of contacts. I seem to not able to find one.

Any advise

I have used Yubo but isn't effective. I am going Uni at Sept but I cant wait that long.

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why are u so desperate for a relationship may i ask? maybe you should give girls that aren't necessarily your type a chance.

Original post by zayn_24
Im 18.

Looking 4 a relationship.

I am currently using Wizz. Girls do want to go on a date w me but not really my dream. My dream is a blonde with blue eyes. I am light brown skin with black eyes.

I do believe its possible however the girl that is on WIzz r the cool ones. I know its possible but dont know where to find one.

My college only has 30 girls but none of my type mentioned as I live in Lond.

I heard that some people find it on SnapChat but since I only have been using for 3 months and not a lot of contacts. I seem to not able to find one.

Any advise

I have used Yubo but isn't effective. I am going Uni at Sept but I cant wait that long.
Reply 2
IDK why just that cos my type is probably at the top end it will be very hard to find. Its just sense of hopelessness is the reason I m being desperate.

IDK if I should give the others a chance as I have decided that this year I will hopefully be in a relationship.

Original post by blair5656
why are u so desperate for a relationship may i ask? maybe you should give girls that aren't necessarily your type a chance.
Original post by blair5656
why are u so desperate for a relationship may i ask? maybe you should give girls that aren't necessarily your type a chance.

true i may not be blonde im fkin filo but yeah as a girl i am not into desperate people, most people want someone stable. so go jim with homies. good luck op. you got this.
Original post by zayn_24
IDK why just that cos my type is probably at the top end it will be very hard to find. Its just sense of hopelessness is the reason I m being desperate.

IDK if I should give the others a chance as I have decided that this year I will hopefully be in a relationship.

maybe you should give other type of girls, do not restrict only talking to girls with blue eyes and blonde hair, personality is also a huge factor in relationships its not always about looks.
Reply 5
How do I make myself look not desperate then.
This is how I text a girl in social media.

I need 2 tell u something

Ok firstly what city u live in

Serious we live quite nears.

I was thinking if we could meet up in person then see where things go

would u be interested.

any advise to make it better.
Original post by zayn_24
How do I make myself look not desperate then.
This is how I text a girl in social media.

I need 2 tell u something

Ok firstly what city u live in

Serious we live quite nears.

I was thinking if we could meet up in person then see where things go

would u be interested.

any advise to make it better.

Yes, I would advise you not to message random people on social media.
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Reply 8
You've had lots of replies on all the other threads you've made on this; have you read them?

Even taking this approach in real life isn't going to get you very far. Make friends with girls and learn how to socialise with them. It will open your eyes to more than blonde hair and blues eyes!
Original post by Admit-One
Yes, I would advise you not to message random people on social media.


Cant do it in person ATM.

I am quite young so cant rly do it in public.

Only way to do it in person is via uni so 9 months time
Original post by Anonymous
Cant do it in person ATM.

I am quite young so cant rly do it in public.

Only way to do it in person is via uni so 9 months time

Of course you can! Work, hobbies, volunteering, sports; lots of ways to meet people.

PS. Uni is a public place...
Original post by Anonymous
Cant do it in person ATM.

I am quite young so cant rly do it in public.

Only way to do it in person is via uni so 9 months time


You’re not going to establish a meaningful relationship, in 9 months, with your list of dealbreakers, by a scattershot mailbomb via social media.

Stop treating dating like a race, and enjoy interacting with people.
Original post by Surnia
Of course you can! Work, hobbies, volunteering, sports; lots of ways to meet people.

PS. Uni is a public place...


I am thinking of changing my work.

Dont really have time for hobbies, volunteering.

I dont do sports only gym.

Barely get to meet anyone.

WDUM a public. Isn't school a public school. U r able to make friends.
Original post by Admit-One
You’re not going to establish a meaningful relationship, in 9 months, with your list of dealbreakers, by a scattershot mailbomb via social media.

Stop treating dating like a race, and enjoy interacting with people.

IDK cos when I see others who r my age they all have gf.

It makes me feel the odd one out.
Original post by Anonymous
IDK cos when I see others who r my age they all have gf.

It makes me feel the odd one out.


None of that makes spamming people via social media the way forward.
Original post by Anonymous
I am thinking of changing my work.

Dont really have time for hobbies, volunteering.

I dont do sports only gym.

Barely get to meet anyone.

WDUM a public. Isn't school a public school. U r able to make friends.

You said of meeting people "I am quite young so cant rly do it in public." I pointed out that uni is a public place, hence you'll still be meeting people in public.
hello i am blonde and blue eyes girl
Original post by zayn_24
Im 18.

Looking 4 a relationship.

I am currently using Wizz. Girls do want to go on a date w me but not really my dream. My dream is a blonde with blue eyes. I am light brown skin with black eyes.

I do believe its possible however the girl that is on WIzz r the cool ones. I know its possible but dont know where to find one.

My college only has 30 girls but none of my type mentioned as I live in Lond.

I heard that some people find it on SnapChat but since I only have been using for 3 months and not a lot of contacts. I seem to not able to find one.

Any advise

I have used Yubo but isn't effective. I am going Uni at Sept but I cant wait that long.

As a 17-year-old blonde-haired blue-eyed girl from London, my advice for you is to speak to people in real life. From what I've noticed, most people with lives don't use apps like Yubo and Snapchat. If you are gonna start Uni soon, make sure you join societies and friendships and relationships will come naturally.
Let me get this straight.



Girls do want to go on a date but not my type. I have decided since 2023 to get a gf and about 15 girls wanted to go on a date but couldnt such as being far or me not responding to where we should meet up.



I do believe as I get better with my physical looks and skills I will get my type as yesterday someone did wanted to go on a date with me whos my type but we lived far.



OFC I am being pedantic but thats just how I am. Some people r rushing it for the sake of S--. But I am not I want a life partner.



I suppose I can improve on my skills rn so I can master them when I go to uni.
any advise

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