Is it me or is it just him.

So i begun talking to this guy January and we was adding each other in social media, he doesnt look alike the type of the bad guy so i thought maybe his a great guy let me just continue talking to him. I see his followers are alot and its more of female followers and random females. I asked him about it he said it was fake but how can i be fake when it was all random girls and if it was fake he wouldve had also guys and porno followers too. So i kind of tried to not think about it not care too much but i couldn't. I know this may sound bad but i wanted to check if my intuition was right so i end up checking the girls he follows he likes and comments '😍❤' on girls bikini booty picture and likes a variety of girls body pictures, i tried to compare the likes he liked my post pictures i see he has liked more girls body pictures and less then mine. AND THE FUNNY THING IS HE ASKED ME TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND FIRST. I feel like **** and disrespected so in early april i talked to him about it and i sent a angry text and blocked him for it and then he blocked me while i unblocked him. 🙃

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I'm sorry to hear that you had this experience with this guy. It can be tough when you feel like someone is not being honest with you and you start to doubt your intuition. It sounds like you tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but ultimately your gut feeling was confirmed by his actions on social media.

It's understandable that you would feel hurt and disrespected by his behavior, especially if he asked you to be his girlfriend first. It's important to remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects and values you, and who is honest with you.

While it can be tempting to lash out and send angry messages, it's usually best to try to communicate calmly and assertively about your feelings and boundaries. Blocking and unblocking each other may only add more confusion and hurt to the situation.

Take some time to focus on yourself and your own well-being. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and make you feel good about yourself. You deserve to be happy and respected in your relationships.