DTR when ...

so im 18 and my guy is 23 and today marks 3 months since we met . he has made it clear he doesnt want to define this relationship but has spoken about me meeting his parents and potentially having his children ... so im a bit confused abt what we r acc doing here. he isnt seeing other ppl and nor am I but like I dont know how to approach the fact I want him to be my boyfriend and I want to be his girlfriend yk ?! like he got Rlly defensive and like was like its too soon when I brought it up at the 2 month mark but now im a bit like its been 3 months yk

Ask him again. Communication is key and his reaction will tell you what you need to know about how he views you and what value he puts on the relationship.

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how do I phrase it

Original post by Anonymous

how do I phrase it

If you don't know how to talk to this guy you're dating, how will anyone else?

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like I do but he freaks out when talking abt defining the relationship

Original post by Surnia

If you don't know how to talk to this guy you're dating, how will anyone else?

Original post by Anonymous

like I do but he freaks out when talking abt defining the relationship

Then there isn't a relationship and you know what to do; set boundaries for a serious conversation, or ditch him.

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