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Friend being strange

I'm going to start my third year and I am going to be working on a final year project (FYP). From the start I've always been mentioning to my friend group how I've wanted to do a project with either my Personal Tutor or this other lecturer I get along well with.

My friends were talking about optional modules too and when I asked one of them about what their choice was for FYP, one of my friends said she hadn't researched it and didn't know. They then asked me about it and I told them my choices, my friend who just admitted to not knowing what to do then suddenly said she wanted to do the same as me. (She has a habit of copying work and making others do all the work for her. )

I don't know if we can both do the same project but I jokingly responded that I should hurry up and email the lecturer for my project choice, she got offended and responded with 'wow, is it like that then?' I told her I was wanting to do it for weeks (wanted to do my exams before submitting my choices) and that I was already researching on it, I didn't think she would ever be interested in what I wanted to do, because her degree specialises in an entirely different topic!

I don't know if I'll even get it, but I found it really unreasonable that she suddenly became like this. What are your thoughts?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm going to start my third year and I am going to be working on a final year project (FYP). From the start I've always been mentioning to my friend group how I've wanted to do a project with either my Personal Tutor or this other lecturer I get along well with.

My friends were talking about optional modules too and when I asked one of them about what their choice was for FYP, one of my friends said she hadn't researched it and didn't know. They then asked me about it and I told them my choices, my friend who just admitted to not knowing what to do then suddenly said she wanted to do the same as me. (She has a habit of copying work and making others do all the work for her. )

I don't know if we can both do the same project but I jokingly responded that I should hurry up and email the lecturer for my project choice, she got offended and responded with 'wow, is it like that then?' I told her I was wanting to do it for weeks (wanted to do my exams before submitting my choices) and that I was already researching on it, I didn't think she would ever be interested in what I wanted to do, because her degree specialises in an entirely different topic!

I don't know if I'll even get it, but I found it really unreasonable that she suddenly became like this. What are your thoughts?

If her degree specialises in something different, it’s just her trying her luck for the sake of it. Clearly, the work is catching up and she’s choosing to mooch off of you instead. Email the lecturer for your project choice ASAP and hope that from what you said, she gets the memo, because it is highly unreasonable to expect your friend to do all of the work when you’re an adult going into your final year of uni.

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