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Watching porn because I "can't" have a girlfriend?

I'm basically a male christian who's living in an arabic country and at the moment of writing, I'm a teen. Christianity disallows doing sex with the other gender until both of you is married (married means you are 24-35?), which means I've to wait about 7 years till that I can't really marry because marriage means having a home, money, rising kids,..etc. And doing sex with marriage is disallowed. And as an arabic country, you can't rent a room in a hotel with the other gender unless both of you were forigners, so it's impossible to do sex with anyone currently. And personally, I'm a highly sexsually active person so just not doing anything is a life-killer. Unlike west countries, where everyone can get a girlfriend and everyone there is just a little open-minded. This is a problem with our society to be honest. So in that case, shouldn't the one watch porn and fantasize himself? I mean you still have a decades to be with someone, so you should do what you want till that. Anyway, I know that porn is bad, especially for teens but I mean this is the only way but recently I've been experiencing depression, anxiety and low self-esteem just talking to any woman. So the effects are there but you'll never be able to be with someone? So how can the one solve a problem like this? Should I just keep watching porn? Stop, and wait for someone (really, can't)? Or secretly do that with someone (I feel this would be a bad thing and it's but whatelse can the one do - still impossible but I may get the chance one day)? So I wanna say what y'all got here? Also, thanks for reading, and I apologize for bad grammer (wrote it all by hand - teen from arabic country). Thanks again!
Original post by Anonymous
I'm basically a male christian who's living in an arabic country and at the moment of writing, I'm a teen. Christianity disallows doing sex with the other gender until both of you is married (married means you are 24-35?), which means I've to wait about 7 years till that I can't really marry because marriage means having a home, money, rising kids,..etc. And doing sex with marriage is disallowed. And as an arabic country, you can't rent a room in a hotel with the other gender unless both of you were forigners, so it's impossible to do sex with anyone currently. And personally, I'm a highly sexsually active person so just not doing anything is a life-killer. Unlike west countries, where everyone can get a girlfriend and everyone there is just a little open-minded. This is a problem with our society to be honest. So in that case, shouldn't the one watch porn and fantasize himself? I mean you still have a decades to be with someone, so you should do what you want till that. Anyway, I know that porn is bad, especially for teens but I mean this is the only way but recently I've been experiencing depression, anxiety and low self-esteem just talking to any woman. So the effects are there but you'll never be able to be with someone? So how can the one solve a problem like this? Should I just keep watching porn? Stop, and wait for someone (really, can't)? Or secretly do that with someone (I feel this would be a bad thing and it's but whatelse can the one do - still impossible but I may get the chance one day)? So I wanna say what y'all got here? Also, thanks for reading, and I apologize for bad grammer (wrote it all by hand - teen from arabic country). Thanks again!


Hello. As a young Christian myself I recommend stop watching porn. It’s not a God honoring thing. There is nothing good about it. No offense. Because you start to see women for just their body and pleasure that they can give you. If you want to talk more in-depth your more than welcome to pm me
@Queen Rose I can't pm you, can you do it? Thanks!
Original post by Anonymous
@Queen Rose I can't pm you, can you do it? Thanks!


You’re posted as anonymous so I can find your account. Send me a visitor message and I’ll pm you from there
(edited 1 year ago)
Here is a not anonymous one, @Queen Rose
Original post by sonickev
Here is a not anonymous one, @Queen Rose

Thanks!
I can't even pm you, because my account is not 3 days old? Do you have any other social I can contact you on because I can't here? also thanks again for your time!
Original post by sonickev
I can't even pm you, because my account is not 3 days old? Do you have any other social I can contact you on because I can't here? also thanks again for your time!

Do you live in the UK? And of course! I’m always willing to help! 😁
(edited 1 year ago)
Original post by Queen Rose
Do you live in the UK?


According to my post, no. You read it all, right?
@Queen Rose Sure, but I'm going to post my email world-wide, huh?
@Queen Rose Sure then!
Original post by Queen Rose
No sir I will send you mine in my pm


please don't share your contact details as if is against community guidelines - it's for your own safety. you don't know who this person is. there are a lot of freaks on the internet and sometimes they end up on here.
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