Too much of a coincidence really...

So my ex knew I was flying back today and she knows I love flying, loves everything about it. She watched my story Thursday when I flew out, but then randomly stopped viewing the whole weekend for the first time ever.

Anyway, on Monday evening when I landed, she posted a random story on Insta of an aeroplane and a contrail. Bear in mind she has no interest in flying and does that on the evening I flew back...

I know we aren't talking at the moment, but I feel like this is her trying to play mind games to reach out? Or get me to reach out...

So my ex knew I was flying back today and she knows I love flying, loves everything about it. She watched my story Thursday when I flew out, but then randomly stopped viewing the whole weekend for the first time ever.

Anyway, on Monday evening when I landed, she posted a random story on Insta of an aeroplane and a contrail. Bear in mind she has no interest in flying and does that on the evening I flew back...

I know we aren't talking at the moment, but I feel like this is her trying to play mind games to reach out? Or get me to reach out...

Why is she not blocked? She's an ex after all, time to move on.

Ignore but don’t block. Blocking is the sign that you can’t move on.

How so?

Unfollowing and blocking shows that you can’t stay neutral when you receive info on an ex. When a couple break up and move on they don’t mind what the other one gets up to. If all of a sudden they block or unfollow the ex it’s a sign that either they can’t move on or that they have a new bf/ gf who is jealous which again plays into the hands of the ex who’ll know that the new relationship isn’t stable and trust is lacking.

Interesting perspective, cheers

Unfollowing and blocking shows that you can’t stay neutral when you receive info on an ex. When a couple break up and move on they don’t mind what the other one gets up to. If all of a sudden they block or unfollow the ex it’s a sign that either they can’t move on or that they have a new bf/ gf who is jealous which again plays into the hands of the ex who’ll know that the new relationship isn’t stable and trust is lacking.

Its not about the ex and what they think though. When you're blocking you're doing it for yourself for your own healing so that you can move on in peace.

I think don't react, and try to ignore her. She is obviously wanting some sort of reaction, but I think that you shouldn't give her the satisfaction...

Can't stand people who play mind games, it's childish and immature. I suggest you just air her and move on.

Even if she's playing mind games, why bother about it since she's your ex? No offence, though. If she needs you, she'll try to communicate with you in some way, and let's wait for that. So, calm down and don't stress.

Unfollowing and blocking shows that you can’t stay neutral when you receive info on an ex. When a couple break up and move on they don’t mind what the other one gets up to. If all of a sudden they block or unfollow the ex it’s a sign that either they can’t move on or that they have a new bf/ gf who is jealous which again plays into the hands of the ex who’ll know that the new relationship isn’t stable and trust is lacking.

I didn't do it because I wanted her to see what she's lost out on. Because she killed a good relationship, that was going well. I didn't - but I understand her past and her avoidant attachment style.

Seems like she has muted my story though, which is interesting.

No offence but this just sounds like both of you are playing games. Just be mature enough to make a decision, you either keep her in your social media and be indifferent or remove her and move on.

Why don't you just talk to her instead of playing these games? Like really.

I am not playing games. She's the one that posted that picture? I am just living my life, she's the one that's either not viewing what I am up to or has muted me then posted a very significant picture on the evening I flew in. I told her she can just reach out to me if she wants.