Experiencing massive fallout and isolation in school

Recovering porn addict here, in high school. I was also scammed into a sexually charged convo. Some do know about my past porn problem, but I am being severely isolated by people. Or distant. I do not know, this charade has been going on for 3 months now. Why do people judge so much, and how can I get past this? Why do people instead not admire me for still being brave and Courageous enough to face the heat of my problems, and I still have not flinched? I am still in the sense, alive.

Is this me overthinking, or is this just a signal that no one wants to talk to me and I should just focus on studies and get past everyone in life? I really do not know what to do. I cannot lead such a life much longer. Advice please? I am losing myself. Thank you.

Recovering porn addict here, in high school. I was also scammed into a sexually charged convo. Some do know about my past porn problem, but I am being severely isolated by people. Or distant. I do not know, this charade has been going on for 3 months now. Why do people judge so much, and how can I get past this? Why do people instead not admire me for still being brave and Courageous enough to face the heat of my problems, and I still have not flinched? I am still in the sense, alive.

Is this me overthinking, or is this just a signal that no one wants to talk to me and I should just focus on studies and get past everyone in life? I really do not know what to do. I cannot lead such a life much longer. Advice please? I am losing myself. Thank you.

Hi! I was bullied in Highschool (beaten up, isolated, called names, etc). So I kind of know how you feel.

I think you should focus on the people who are not isolating you and hang out with them. Depending on which year you are in, you could change schools? Fresh start. You could also join a club you’re interested in and invest in those people. If you’re interested in sports, that makes it easy. If not, Google your interest and see if there’s clubs near you.

Worse comes to worst, all of this fails. Focus on your studies. Invest in your future self. I wish someone had told me that. Your future self deserves it.

You’ll still be facing the heat because clearly your peers having nothing better going on for themselves. Picking on you makes them feel better, which is sad. I always feel sorry for those people. Imagine being so insecure, you cause hurt to others…

I hear you and sympathise with you. Focusing on something like your studies will pay off and don't be hard on yourself. You will get through this, you have something to look forward to and that is success, I promise things will start to look up and you'll be glad you didn't give up
love and light your way xx

Yea same story here, I have been bullied mercilessly every year. I am in Year 12, so 1 more year of school left.

Right yes, I can do that. Thing is the people who don't isolate me were the ones being a bit distant today. So I do not know what is happening and I do not know some of the context, but this has been going on for a long time.


Thank you
Yes I am getting back on track on my studies. I just hate it that people exposed this personal part of me. I know it was going to come out but not in such a way. I vow to never watch porn again and neither indulge in sexually charged convos.

But yes, some just have too much free time lying around and need someone to pick on. It just hurts deep down. So much of the pain is being reflected in my whole personality. I hope God will help me here. I really do. I am in a dark spot.

God will help you, i was isolated from my friends and i felt so alone, i still do. But i put my time in myself, my studies and God. You will feel that light and that unexplainable joy. Just hang in there

The ones that seem a bit distant that day may have problems of their own going on and that might be there way of coping. If I was you, I’d ask them about it. Just be like “hey, I don’t know if it’s just me but you seem a bit distant. Is everything ok”x

Hi! I was bullied in Highschool (beaten up, isolated, called names, etc). So I kind of know how you feel.

I think you should focus on the people who are not isolating you and hang out with them. Depending on which year you are in, you could change schools? Fresh start. You could also join a club you’re interested in and invest in those people. If you’re interested in sports, that makes it easy. If not, Google your interest and see if there’s clubs near you.

Worse comes to worst, all of this fails. Focus on your studies. Invest in your future self. I wish someone had told me that. Your future self deserves it.

You’ll still be facing the heat because clearly your peers having nothing better going on for themselves. Picking on you makes them feel better, which is sad. I always feel sorry for those people. Imagine being so insecure, you cause hurt to others…