I’ve recently turned 22 and completed my final year at uni, and yet I’ve never even been on a single date. Don’t get me wrong - I’ve gone out, made friends, joined societies, all the usual fun stuff - but dating wise I have done nothing.
I think the main issue is that whilst I’m not really a particularly anxious person, when there’s a girl who I like, even if I’m pretty sure she probably likes me back, I just cannot get the courage to say anything, and just decide that it’s much easier to just stay as we are as friends. Which it is, but also that’s not exactly a great way to live your life.
What I’ve also never done is download a dating app. I’m not too worried about not getting matches (and even if I didn’t, ah well) - my main concern is that I’ll start talking to someone, and then do exactly the same. Just talk a lot over text and never actually suggest meeting up, until the other person gets bored and moves on.
So I guess what I’m asking is what’s the best place to start when first trying online dating, and also, how long usually should you talk to someone before suggesting a date? I’m a guy by the way if that makes any difference.
Also with regards to the zero experience - is that worth mentioning? Just like jokily at some stage? Like I say I don’t have issue talking to people but can be I guess… somewhat quirky in the things I say and can come across as a little awkward, especially when I’m meeting someone new.
Sorry about the long post!