Anon,
Sometimes you meet people and you are instantly friends : ) It's as if you've known them for ages and it's great, but other times friendship doesn't work like this. I think most of the time friendship doesn't work like this. Sometimes, it takes a long time to build a friendship and for people who are friends to become good friends.
It's great that you have had some good moments this year and that you have got to know some people. Maybe some of these friendships will become even stronger next year? Are you planning to meet up with some of them over the summer? Is there something you could organise or suggest? A picnic, BBQ, bowling or even a trip somewhere, maybe to the beach or a city you are interested in visiting? Trying to keep these friendships alive over the summer is one way you could start the second year well.
You could also contact the international office at your university. Are their activities they have on over the summer or socials they run during the academic year that you might not be aware of? Are there other international students who they might be able to put you in contact with who are looking for people to be friends with?
It's good you have recognised that you spent too much time on your own during the first year. It's easy to feel more lonely and down when your not seeing or talking to people much, so do try to get out, even if it's just going to the library or visiting a café or coffee shop. It's good to be around people and you never know who might become a friend.
You could also try new societies in the autumn.
I have heard it said that it takes three years before you feel settled in a new place. The point is that it takes time, but the more you get to know people, the more you spend time together, talking, going to places etc then the quicker those friendships will become strong.
Don't lose heart!
All the best,
Oluwatosin – 2nd year student – University of Huddersfield