My bff told me she never loved me!

We’ve been besties for 2 years. We have so much fun but yk she isolates herself and ghosts me sometimes. Like she would block me from everywhere for months and then when i ask why she tells me she needed space. In this 2 years she’ve only said she loves me 2 freaking times (cringy I am Ik lol). But I’m attached to her the way I never imagined I would be to a human ever. Recently she blocked me and then I texted her from different account today asked her about it she said she needed space like why does she need space from ME?! ME?! I thought I was special, the one she would run to when she was tired of everything. She told me that I don’t know her and she mixes me other people in her life. And the problem with me is that even after all this I can’t unlove her as much as I want to I can’t! I told her and she is very confused and depressed about it too, that she can’t return my feelings and she’s guilty about it . I hate her so much. I’ve never hated someone so much but my love or whatever this things I have for her is outweighing that and stopping me from leaving her. I can’t afford to lose her! I just want her to stay that’s all I’m not even asking her to love me or something. I need advice on what to do! More like a therapist

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You should try discussing to her about how it makes you feel, and slowly but gradually become more distant until you are fully independent, and have control over your self.