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Please help me, I’m reluctant to have intimacy

Hello everyone, I want to share my problem with you and see your opinion. I can’t have sex, I have this block that won’t allow me to do it. I don’t know why. I’m not virgin and I haven’t been raped or anything.. I really like kissing, touching hands, cuddling but I’m not interested in sex. That’s why I don’t even look for a relationship because of course I will be requested to do it. I think I will never find relationship because it seems impossible to me. How can i fight this problem?
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Hello everyone, I want to share my problem with you and see your opinion. I can’t have sex, I have this block that won’t allow me to do it. I don’t know why. I’m not virgin and I haven’t been raped or anything.. I really like kissing, touching hands, cuddling but I’m not interested in sex. That’s why I don’t even look for a relationship because of course I will be requested to do it. I think I will never find relationship because it seems impossible to me. How can i fight this problem?

Nothing wrong with that! Have you considered that you might be asexual? Of course you don't have to put a label on it if you don't want to, but it might help to understand things :smile:

https://www.asexuality.org
https://www.lgbthero.org.uk/what-is-asexuality
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/understanding-asexuality/

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