Does love really exist?

yes of course personality is important, u cant love someone cos of their looks. but im asking about 'love at first sight'. who beieves in it and why?

thats what i thought but there's still ppl that argue that u can fall in love instantly...

I don't believe it because you can't tell (eveything about) a person's personality from your first look at them.

Yes you can. For example, someone with a swear word tatooed on their forehead is unlikely to be very friendly, and a woman wearing a habit is not very likely to mug you.

Ok so we've all got our own ideas about the exsistance of love. Say, for a minute that it is true....but is love at first sight real?!

Personally, I don't think so.
To love someone, u have to delve into their personality, that takes time.
You might see someone and fancy him/her cos of first impressions, but not love.

what do u fink?

i am on about how do u know if u r really in luv wiv some one
or how do u know if some one really luvs u and isnt just playing u about

I think if you are in love, you just know w/out questioning it.
As far as how do you know if someone loves you it just boils down to trust. I trust my instincts they have never led me wrong yet.

i agree! u definately know when your in love!
but sometimes it can be easy to think you are when youre not!!

love is that that you cannot know until you experience. so if you never love does it still exist????

Personally I feel there is a big difference between loving a person and being IN love with them. I feel both of these things toward my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 happy years Duno what is going to happen when we get to Uni...but whatever happens happens, and I know that so many experiences that I have shared with my boyfriend are never going to fade in my memory Part of me will love him for the rest of my life, even if we don't stay together forever and get married etc etc.

i want ur opinion

That is an excellent point!!
I love my boyfriend more than anyone but... i dont think its the same as it used to be. aint got that im soooo in love happy smiley feeling anymore, maybe its cos all we do is argue at the mo.
Still love him, always will, no matter what!

i know this is sickening, but i agree...love changes & evolves as you grow together (bleurgh). damn, why can't i think of a less sickening way to put that? sorry.