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A persons character...

Anon because my nickname is not very discrete in that its basically my full name.

My ex-girlfriend once said to me that she and her best friend had 'parallel lifes'.

Parallel in the sense that they both seem to make the same decisions, influenced by each others thoughts and/or actions.

I suppose the main example I could put forward is as follows:

When she and her bestfriend both had boyfriends (before me) her friend broke up with her guy and as I remember, my ex broke up with her boyfriend in a matter of weeks.

You can probably guess what happened to me. The exact same situation as above.

I can't say for certain that her friend influenced her decision to break up with me, because there were other (particularly lame) reasons such as no longer wanting a boyfriend and to just be with her friends.

Anyway, I guess my question is this:

What does the above say about their character?

Personally I think it's quite piteous and deplorable (and heartbreaking)

It would be cool to hear some of your thoughts

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Yeah, she's a moron. I wouldn't worry too much about it though - you wouldn't want to be there five years down the line when her friend decides to become a man. Just move on, she was never worth your time.

Reply 2

*TheSweetestDrug*

they're both too easily influenced..

Reply 3

fallen angel9

She sounds pathetic, weak and immature.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

fallen angel9

She sounds pathetic, weak and immature.

Absolutely. She's not worth her weight in gold mate - meet someone who really appreciates you. :yes:

Reply 5

username271381

14

That's... slightly ludicrous. She needs to learn to think for herself someday and stop taking the easy route by letting someone else essentially make all her decisions for her.

Reply 6

FrustratedHistorian

She's a twin sheep...possibly can't make decisions for herself

Reply 7

Siobherz

1

lol they depend on each other so much that they dont even have their own characters. lame lol theyll get no where

Reply 8

Melting Sugar.

14

*TheSweetestDrug*

they're both too easily influenced..

^ was about to say the same thing.

Reply 9

catzrin

Anonymous

Absolutely. She's not worth her weight in gold mate - meet someone who really appreciates you. :yes:

Are you addressing yourself there OP?

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

catzrin

Are you addressing yourself there OP?

It would appear that way but it was a friend being supportive :smile:

Reply 11

La Esmerelda

17

Anonymous

Yeah, she's a moron. I wouldn't worry too much about it though - you wouldn't want to be there five years down the line when her friend decides to become a man. Just move on, she was never worth your time.

lol I would have repped you for that but you're anon.

Reply 12

falls_whisper

14

Sounds quite pathetic, unless it's just some coincidence. Reminds me of when some girls attach themselves to another, and 'copy' everything the other one does -_-;

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

OP

falls_whisper

Sounds quite pathetic, unless it's just some coincidence. Reminds me of when some girls attach themselves to another, and 'copy' everything the other one does -_-;

Yet she described herself as a 'freespirit' to me after we'd broken up... how ironic that was

Anyway, I don't even bother recognising her anymore

Reply 14

Tootles

21

Anonymous

Yeah, she's a moron. I wouldn't worry too much about it though - you wouldn't want to be there five years down the line when her friend decides to become a man. Just move on, she was never worth your time.

Agreed. She's no good. They'll probably end up moving in together, anyway.