Is it now socially acceptable for girls/women to regularly have sex outside of a committed relationship? Guys, would you be put off by going out with a girl who had a history of this?
How many people would a woman have to have slept with before say the age of 20 for it to be 'too many'?
One of my friends who is 18 has slept with about 15-18 different guys and the majority of them were boyfriends. She widely has a bad reputation for it and I think men think of her as being easy. But she doesn't seem to care. She has plenty of friends, and plenty of friends with benefits- if she wants sex, there is always someone she can see. She has got to the point where she would like a relationship but she still enjoys her life as it is now.
As for me, I've mostly been in long term relationships from the age of 13 (no sex) to 18, as it happens I've tended to go from one relationship to another just by chance, and yet somehow I also have a reputation as a 'slut' according to the girls at the girls school I went to. Somehow, having a boyfriend at a young age was 'slutty', although no one knew whether it was a sexual relationship or not. Now I'm single and this year (age 19), I've slept with more guys than I have before although 3 of them were boyfriends. I have seen 2 guys casually at uni and yet found myself agonising over if they're going to stop seeing me- and then I'd start seeing someone else and my 'number' would go up. Although I have not and would not have a one night stand, I find nothing wrong with safe, consensual, regular casual sex with someone you know.
So why do I feel so guilty when I think about it?? Why am I agonising over the number of people I've slept with? Do men ever feel like this or do they just feel good about it?