Are guys serous when they say they prefer slim girls to big girls?

What Medilord insighted. I don't think fellas go about 'finding' long-term relationships in the same conventional way as girls do, commonly. It's not incredibly desirable for most men. But if a girl does come along possessing both sexual attraction and engaging personality, you can expect a man to direct his attention and focus on her.

Are you trollin'?

And by engaging personality and sexual attraction - what do you mean? (For future reference).

After all, if a man would not go into a relationship with a blonde bimbo - what is "sexual attraction" with regards to a long-term relationships?

Tbh, I wish I was but I'm not . I just have some funny thoughts sometimes, and it's easy letting them out behind anon. Really, I am having these problems and I'm desperate for a solution.

This just confuses me. Because I'm slim, decent figured, yet I hardly ever get male attention. Yet, I know big girls who get guys so easily. Not that I'm saying this is a bad thing for them, I personally don't have anything against big girls. It's just what I hear in general from the media and online about "big being disgusting and slim being sexy", is very opposite to what I've been observing in my real life. And I am slightly puzzled

Thoughts?

Stupid question, but how does a male find a long-term relationship partner?

Engaging personality is when a girl is able to say and incline thought-provoking content through discussion and in a social environment. The ability to relate, listen. So simple put, she is able to start or continue good conversation. But it's not just conversation, her character will be one that isn't entirely transparent, wanting us to know more (this is a large reason as to why girls proclaimed as the 'hard-to-get' ones make us dizzy).

Sexual attraction isn't all about being a blonde bimbo. Blonde 'bimbos' don't do it for me because, (without making a generalized, ignorant statement) they are fairly transparent, relating back to what I said above. It's more than big boobs and a nice ass really. It's the winks, the smiles, her allure.

Different guys like different things.

Also, it's not only the size of someone that people look at. Confidence, personality, sense of humour, things in common etc. All have a lot of bearing on it.

Any further advice?

2nd part

ot that I'm saying this is a bad thing for them, I personally don't have anything against big girls. It's just what I hear in general from the media and online about "big being disgusting and slim being sexy", is very opposite to what I've been observing in my real life. And I am slightly puzzled

Any further advice?

This just confuses me. Because I'm slim, decent figured, yet I hardly ever get male attention. Yet, I know big girls who get guys so easily. Not that I'm saying this is a bad thing for them, I personally don't have anything against big girls. It's just what I hear in general from the media and online about "big being disgusting and slim being sexy", is very opposite to what I've been observing in my real life. And I am slightly puzzled

Thoughts?

I'm just tired of this "Oh she's big why isn't she single?" kinda attitude. It really gets to me.