Have I gone from guaranteed sex, to ****ing it up?

(Male responses only please! The last thing I need is negative, patronising girls..)

You sure that was her flatmate lol. Sounds a bit dodgy

Am guessing you PAID for the taxi..... lesson learnt I would like to think.

^ good to see you didn't pay for her, was going to say you got played

but a no sex for a year bet, really? sounds a bit fishy to me mate. Tbh you should have really pushed for it when she was back at yours imo

She weren't at mine at any point mate. Trust me, if she was, then I would have done the business. I'm no bottler!

The taxi that night stopped at hers first, her gay mate 'escorted' her out, and then I stayed in the cab and carried on going home.

Long story cut short.

I was out last thursday, got bored, ended up leaving and went off to call a taxi. Ended up getting into conversation with very good looking girl, made a laugh whilst she was also waiting for her taxi - she was on her own too. Both ended up having to wait a while. Both happened to be going in the same taxi direction.

Ended up cuddling up, ending up kissing etc etc. And then I threw in some cool things, like "fancy making this a night to remember? ". She was up for it, and very willing, however, she has a genuine bet going on with her (gay) flatmates, that she can't make any sort of serious sexual contact with boys for a year (she wins a handsome profit). So a kiss was a sort a big deal.

She genuinely wanted it, but never had the time to plan or disguise it from her flatmates - because they could tell when she's had sex. So got in the taxi, kissing eachother and she was all over me for pretty much the whole ride, and exchanged numbers etc. She agreed that she'd come over to mine next week, when her flatmates were busy and would be unaware.

When we got to hers in the taxi, her flatmate was stood there whilst she got out - and she wispered that she couldnt kiss me as he was there. So I nodded and said goodbye.

But now I'm just wondering whether this arrangement is still on, because I texted her earlier and she said she was busy next weekend, the days we agreed on.

And I don't know whether I should just give this one up, or just keep reminding her every now and then by text that she can come round to mine when ever she wants? Because the more I text her, the more I'd feel that I'm putting her off.

She was a girl that would warrant a mans handshake from any bloke if I do actually get round to doing her, put it that way!

(Male responses only please! The last thing I need is negative, patronising girls..)

Sorry, but I think you are really being hard on the girl! Yes I am a guy, but I think you should respect this girls wishes! If she was busy she was busy! I hated your statement that "She weren't at mine at any point mate. Trust me, if she was, then I would have done the business. I'm no bottler!" You mean you would of forced yourself on her against her better wishes? Sounds to me like this girl has got her head screwed on and you need to seriously look at your issues! Girls are NOT just sexual objects they are human beings too with feelings and emotions. Sounds to me like you need relationship councilling! I have got to know many women in my 41 years of being alive, and being a virgin for that long makes me appreciate the fairer and better gender. I HATE the way men treat women especially in the bedroom (yes I have had mates who have made me really angry at the way they treated their 'girlfriends'. Bragging how they got their women to do things that made me feel sick.') Hence why I am staying celibate! Best way to live life! I do miss the social life of college having a few cokes and orange juices with the boys, but I would NEVER have sex with anyone! Yes I am a tea totaler too!

Sorry, but I think you are really being hard on the girl! Yes I am a guy, but I think you should respect this girls wishes! If she was busy she was busy! I hated your statement that "She weren't at mine at any point mate. Trust me, if she was, then I would have done the business. I'm no bottler!" You mean you would of forced yourself on her against her better wishes? Sounds to me like this girl has got her head screwed on and you need to seriously look at your issues! Girls are NOT just sexual objects they are human beings too with feelings and emotions. Sounds to me like you need relationship councilling! I have got to know many women in my 41 years of being alive, and being a virgin for that long makes me appreciate the fairer and better gender. I HATE the way men treat women especially in the bedroom (yes I have had mates who have made me really angry at the way they treated their 'girlfriends'. Bragging how they got their women to do things that made me feel sick.') Hence why I am staying celibate! Best way to live life! I do miss the social life of college having a few cokes and orange juices with the boys, but I would NEVER have sex with anyone! Yes I am a tea totaler too!