Back me up against my deluded boyfriend, who I think has body dysmorphia!

It's so sad that you can't even tell if he's wearing clothes

lol, seeing this picture reminded me of the cover of the bloodhound gang album 'hefty fine'

my eyes.....still....not clean........

OP's sig spoiler freaks me OUT.

So what if he wants to be bigger? Good on him to be motivated enough to achieve the body he wants. He's telling himself he's tiny because it motivates him to work harder. If he wants it enough, your disapproval is only going to push him away.

Instead of whining because it's not what you want, be supportive of what he wants.

So what if he wants to be bigger? Good on him to be motivated enough to achieve the body he wants. He's telling himself he's tiny because it motivates him to work harder. If he wants it enough, your disapproval is only going to push him away.

Instead of whining because it's not what you want, be supportive of what he wants.

Well said, she told me earlier she couldn't be with me if i get much heavier... bit out of order.

Because we are limited for sexual positions because he squishes me. We cant do missionary I would die. I couldn't take him on a hot air baloon because his weight 'exceeded' one person and I didn't want to pay for 3 people. He orderes 2 main meals at resturants and the waiter always gets confused and looks for a third person

You sound like a horribly ungrateful person. Instead of looking at the negatives, here are the alternative positives.

You have more sex positions you can do, more interesting ones even, like standing holding you up with your legs wrapped round him. Lots of couples can't do that, because the boyfriend isn't strong enough.

How the **** is it a big problem that the waiter gets confused briefly?! Why do you give so much of a crap what the bloody waiter thinks?! Alternative positive: it's hilarious that he has two meals, and it's nice that he enjoys his food. Would you rather he picked at a leaf of lettuce like some wuss?!

So you were too stingy to compensate for the fact your boyfriend is a big bloke and go on a hot air balloon. Never mind. How about the thousands of other activities you can do together?!

Like him the way he is. Or accept that it's ok if he dumps you if you put on a few pounds.

Because he is 6ft6 and 18stone and he thinks he is tiny and is obsessed with getting 'bigger' - this is body dysmorphia right?

Or maybe you are just too fat? Can you not get a boyfriend - are you jealous... Clearly you are THE CAKE LADY you must be obese.

Not exactly stingy when it's like 295 per person?

And just stfu.

Hahaha, now we just wait for the angry response....

How the fluck does the fact that he wants to be really muscular mean he has dysmorphia?? That's not what body dysmorphia is at all you goat.

Personal attack is a very bad way to prove your point. Because you have just shown my points have hit a raw nerve, therefore you see some truth in them. You're getting defensive because I've pointed out your faults. It's a natural human reaction, I understand. I'm going to stop giving you my insight now because it is angering you instead of helping you. I hope you can review my posts when you are feeling a bit more rational and humble.

However, before I go: I am actually an attractive girl, of perfectly normal weight, with a gorgeous amazing boyfriend, who i appreciate despite his faults, and have sex with in whatever position takes our fancy. I do appreciate good cakes, and am dapper at a spot of baking.

I wish you all the best.

Truly, your predictive powers are wondrous to behold.

Hahaha, now we just wait for the angry response....

If you are the boyfriend here, quit winding her up. You are a **** for trying to score points and finding it funny she's feeling angry and probably hiding a lot of upset.

Instead of making daft threads about the issues you have with each other, go away, breath, count to a million, then talk to each other. Or let me know where you are so I can come bang both your heads together.