Aww..zaki, so quick!
I'm a bit worried about how i'm feeling right now. I've been a bit down these past 2 weeks and I'm not sure whether it's depresion or a multitude of things. Had a bit of an issue with friends at uni- I have a group of around 4 of us, and I'm only really close to 2 of them really and the other two I'm friendly with.
Anyway one of them talks in lectures. Not just the odd comment- but a full blown conversation totally unrelated to the lecture. It was starting to irritate me only because It was the end of the course and we need to knuckle down and focus. I planned on speaking to her about it, and had a quiet word that maybe she could be a bit more aware and save it for after lectures. Only for her to TOTALLY overreact, say that everyone talks, it's not a problem because 'everyone does it' and that if I have a problem I shouldn't sit with them anymore in lectures (despite it affecting everyone sitting behind, and in front..and you can clearly hear her whispers when sat at the front lol).
Because she overreacted I just gave up, sat with other friends and just didn't want conflict. However she's really been on the warpath for the past few weeks wanting to 'talk' about her problems with me, and being really confrontational rather unnecessarily. It's made me so uncomfortable being at uni, going to lectures and just hating everytime she goes to me 'we need to talk'. I'm not her friend- just an aquaintance and we're hardly close, so it seems a massive overreaction. She's really split the group up...and one of my close friends today told me I should just be an adult and speak to her (When quite frankly i'm tired of talking about trivial things, want to enjoy uni without childish arguments!!) and because I started it..it's my fault.
I'm so TIRED and fed up of this...it's so pathetic. However it's really been affecting my mood and bringing me way down- i'm feeling anxious and stressed 24/7 and really lonely that something so small and insignificant is causing a rift between my friends.
Really don't know what to do. I'm missing my friends as I can't speak to them when she's around them as she's so aggressive towards me being near her (and she gives my friends dirty looks for going and speaking too me in lectures!). I've refused to talk to them about it as they shouldn't be brought into the middle as it's a problem between me and her- however she's taken them in and making them choose sides. This girl is 29 years old, can you believe it?!
Any ideas? Just can't wait till my holiday and some time off maybe and I can spend time with my friends without her around.