Should I ask out random women?

OP

Okay, so they might get weirded out by this, what if i asked them out from a distance, whilst respecting their space, would that work?

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Georgiina_Tee

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Atleast attempt a conversation

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Reply 6

OP

Original post by Hyde

Life is so much easier when you're asexual.

nah, i'm straight.

Try.

Original post by Mickey the idiot

I've been told to man up and get a GF by my father, would asking random women out in the street work? Like saying 'hi, how are you, want a date'?

Would women be impressed by this confidence?

It probably very hit and miss. You will inevitably get a few knock backs, but if you're nice enough I some women will like this and wouldn't mind going on a casual date

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Maid Marian

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Original post by Hyde

Life is so much easier when you're asexual.

Asexual people still want relationships, don't they?
Just not the hanky panky.

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OP

Original post by Lilbixxie

It probably very hit and miss. You will inevitably get a few knock backs, but if you're nice enough I some women will like this and wouldn't mind going on a casual date

i see,

how are you today btw?

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Hyde

Original post by Maid Marian

Asexual people still want relationships, don't they?
Just not the hanky panky.

Yeah they do but if you factor out the hanky panky a lot of the TSR relationship problems will go away.

To the OP, don't feel pressured to "get a GF" just because your dad told you so

Reply 12

Steezy

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Flat out asking girls out like that will catch them off guard & will most likely result in a no.

A gradient approach would be needed.

Perhaps start with a passing comment, something related to what they're doing. So you need to stay conversation where they're doing something - e.g waiting for something and you could say "always takes ages right?"

Get some sort of reply, carry it on, then give them a compliment. Gauge their reaction. If it's good, then try to make them laugh.

If you get the laugh, ask them a personal question -get some sort of meaningful conversation going.

Then when you're both comfortable, all her something like "are you studying anyone at the moment?" If yes, politely end the conversation. If no say, well do you fancy grabbing a drink this weekend out something? Make it specific.

The rest is self explanatory.

Our you could just get drunk and act like a dick. That seems to work for a lot of guys.

Edit - various autocorrects in here that I'm not changing

(edited 10 years ago)

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Original post by Mickey the idiot

i see,

how are you today btw?

I'm alright thanks, and you?

Reply 14

OP

Original post by Lilbixxie

I'm alright thanks, and you?

I'm good ta, wuu2 today?

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Original post by Mickey the idiot

I'm good ta, wuu2 today?

Erm, nm really. Just trying and failing to finish some work, the depending how that goes, Roller skating later. I've done nothing since 9 though lol, so i'm not hopeful.
Hbu?

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OP

Original post by Lilbixxie

Erm, nm really. Just trying and failing to finish some work, the depending how that goes, Roller skating later. I've done nothing since 9 though lol, so i'm not hopeful.
Hbu?

All I'm going to do today is go for a bike ride. Roller skating sounds fun, whats it like for you?

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Original post by Mickey the idiot

All I'm going to do today is go for a bike ride. Roller skating sounds fun, whats it like for you?

ahh, sounds like a chill day, might be the perfect opportunity to try out your new tactic.
Lol i'm not gunna lie, i'm pretty bad at roller skating, but so are most of my friends. Not falling over would be a pretty good achievement for me. It's ok i guess, it's alway
s good to try something new

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OP

Original post by Lilbixxie

ahh, sounds like a chill day, might be the perfect opportunity to try out your new tactic.
Lol i'm not gunna lie, i'm pretty bad at roller skating, but so are most of my friends. Not falling over would be a pretty good achievement for me. It's ok i guess, it's alway
s good to try something new

I might do, if I have the courage. Ah, I've never been roller skating, so I'm not really sure what it's like tbh, but I've been ice skating an kept falling over, do you know how long it will take until I stop falling btw? I've been once.

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