How will I ever find the one if I'm home all the time?

I'm a straight male and I'm just wondering how I'll ever find the one if I'm home all the time and I only go out to go to college and to the shops and I'm scarred to approach women in public.

You won't. You need to put yourself out there and meet people. Socialise with people at college. You don't need to be hitting on women - just expanding your circle of friends will organically improve your chances of meeting a woman you click with.

Social circle? Face down your approaching fear. Online dating - be clever about how you do online dating. Don't do the same things as most men in online dating.

Find out how to talk to women in a way that they will find your attractive. And then pratctise, practise, practise.
Find out what sort of inner beliefs and thought patterns will make you into the sort of man that women find attractive. These inner beliefs make sense in other (all?) areas of your life.

You won't. You need to put yourself out there and meet people. Socialise with people at college. You don't need to be hitting on women - just expanding your circle of friends will organically improve your chances of meeting a woman you click with.

I've accepted that it's never going to happen. My personality and my life are not conducive to forming any kind of relationship.

I agree that's true.I mean like I know how to communicate with females because I've got quite a few female friends.I've been in a ldr before so I guess it might help from that experience through communication.




Maybe just gotta try.Like maybe joining like clubs and groups of interests might help

What do you do indoors all day long? this might be the clue to what you need to change.

You go out, you develop a social network, you meet people through work/education, etc.

Or you stay single. Your choice.

I have joined clubs. It doesn't work.

To be fair like I'm so focused on looks like it's rare to find someone that looks attractive because my standards in looks are through the roof so that may be an issue too

Eat, sleep , cook and clean a little,watch footy sometimes when it's on, watch tik tok, watch YouTube a little and watch a movie once in a while and do assignment here and there and that's about it and sometimes text random people on some random app lol. Yh it sounds lame lol

Eat, sleep , cook and clean a little,watch footy sometimes when it's on, watch tik tok, watch YouTube a little and watch a movie once in a while and do assignment here and there and that's about it and sometimes text random people on some random app lol. Yh it sounds lame lol

And when you do come across a woman that you find ohysically attractive you come over as nervous and tongue-tied. And therefore weird or creepy?

Which is where the importance of a good inner you as well as understanding good man to woman social skills as well as lots of practise comes in.

Yh that's true practise makes perfect

Time to kick your tik tok and youtube addictions.
Spend half the time saved on meeting and talking with people. And the other half on some higher purpose life goal.