How do girls feel about being approached in the street?

Why is it so creepy and why get scared? If you don't want to just say no. No big deal. Do you have mental problems?

Use your brain. Firstly it takes someone by surprise which is often inappropriate and rude, secondly it is very presumptuous and thirdly, and sadly, girls are sometimes at threat from strange males.

Use your brain. Firstly it takes someone by surprise which is often inappropriate and rude, secondly it is very presumptuous and thirdly, and sadly, girls are sometimes at threat from strange males.

In a restaurant it is easy.

'When they have finished their drinks can you send another two over there please? Thanks' - to the waiter.

Easy. The waiter if he has a brain and is a wingman and not a cockblock will tell them you sent them over. Easy as that really. You have now gained their attention without looking needy and you have also made it easier to go speak to them. In a lot of situations women often come and talk to you if you do this to say thanks.

In a restaurant it is easy.

'When they have finished their drinks can you send another two over there please? Thanks' - to the waiter.

Easy. The waiter if he has a brain and is a wingman and not a cockblock will tell them you sent them over. Easy as that really. You have now gained their attention without looking needy and you have also made it easier to go speak to them. In a lot of situations women often come and talk to you if you do this to say thanks.

Lol good job, now you are a girls ATM while she is getting smashed by other guys. This is probably worse advice, you never buy girls YOU DO NOT KNOW drinks it makes you look weak. Trying to buy affection, you might as well get an escort.

Not really. If she comes over to you then she's interested in getting to know you unless its just to say thanks. If not then she isn't. Buying women drinks doesn't make you look weak. It does if you continuously buy them yes. The only person who wouldn't buy women drinks is a cheapskate tbh. At the end of the day its nothing. As for buying affection, not really. Its just an easy way to break the ice with someone. They are under no obligation to take things further.

Since when was it a weakness to be nice to people? What a strange mentality you have. I'm buying them drinks to break the ice and to then get to know them more, not want a guarantee lay. Loads of my female friends I've bought drinks for like this and after we have got to know one another, it didn't work out as we have wanted different things, they've offered to buy me drinks etc. and we have stayed good friends.

If you go out with the mindset like a predator of getting laid then that is hilarious. I go out with the mindset of having a good time and meeting new people to get to know. If I meet a woman who is interested in me I won't have sex with her anyway. I would just give her my number and ask her to call me when she is free.

Buying drinks for someone isn't a sign of weakness and they are under no obligation to do anything with you or even speak to you. Its a simple gift, an act of kindness, and it is not a transaction as you claim.

At the end of the day its just a drink or two if she is with a friend at a bar. Its not even £10 is it? Hardly going to leave me in poverty being nice and a lot of people spend more than that on cigarettes and I don't smoke.

I don't get this mentality whereby if you're nice to someone or buy them something there must be an ulterior motive or you should expect something return. Its really weird.

Not really. If she comes over to you then she's interested in getting to know you unless its just to say thanks. If not then she isn't. Buying women drinks doesn't make you look weak. It does if you continuously buy them yes. The only person who wouldn't buy women drinks is a cheapskate tbh. At the end of the day its nothing. As for buying affection, not really. Its just an easy way to break the ice with someone. They are under no obligation to take things further.

Since when was it a weakness to be nice to people? What a strange mentality you have. I'm buying them drinks to break the ice and to then get to know them more, not want a guarantee lay. Loads of my female friends I've bought drinks for like this and after we have got to know one another, it didn't work out as we have wanted different things, they've offered to buy me drinks etc. and we have stayed good friends.

If you go out with the mindset like a predator of getting laid then that is hilarious. I go out with the mindset of having a good time and meeting new people to get to know. If I meet a woman who is interested in me I won't have sex with her anyway. I would just give her my number and ask her to call me when she is free.

Buying drinks for someone isn't a sign of weakness and they are under no obligation to do anything with you or even speak to you. Its a simple gift, an act of kindness, and it is not a transaction as you claim.

At the end of the day its just a drink or two if she is with a friend at a bar. Its not even £10 is it? Hardly going to leave me in poverty being nice and a lot of people spend more than that on cigarettes and I don't smoke.

I don't get this mentality whereby if you're nice to someone or buy them something there must be an ulterior motive or you should expect something return. Its really weird.

You said you buy random girls drinks, now you are saying you get approached then buy you drinks. No wonder, you are probably known as the guy who gives out free drinks to the girls who go leave with other guys. either way, i am getting numbers whilst you are buying drinks for random probably ugly girls, and going back home to watch porn. People here saying it is sad/creepy are deluded, i do it and have not got a bad experience to date, just women who react positively and their numbers.

This man speaks sense. Too many stupid little boys in this thread. I've bought random people drinks (as a woman), rolled cigarettes for them and I have no intention of taking things further with them. The fact that these boys see every interaction as "smash" opportunity put so much pressure and sexual desperation on the situation and boy, it shows! And when we can feel that sexual desperation thats when we'd deem men really creepy. Probably put 5 tonnes of sleaze on us in the first 5 mins and call us a bunch of slags if we decline. That's just being **** with women.

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I stop every attractive girl, compliment her,then i small talk and ask for her number.The way you put it is as if everyone who talks to random girls off the street does it by asking directions and then her number or straight up asking for her number. You are worrying too much about "context", just admit it, you are too much of a pussy to do it. I mean this ain't for everyone, if you look like an awkward guy then you will fail like the guy i was with 2 days ago, 600 approaches 6 numbers. If you look decent or even attractive, girls love giving their number to you as long as you are nice to them and have decent game.

I am amazed all the women here are against it, when i do it the girls blush and love it with positive replies like "thankyou", or "you are so sweet".

Can you actually discuss things properly? I guess not.

I am currently seeing someone so its no big issue and the way you talk about things it sounds like you go to nightclubs. I do not. I only go to decent bars and restaurants.


Not really. It means I care more about social interaction and meeting people as opposed to money.

Its not about getting their attention. Its about being nice and wanting to meet new people.

I'm done discussing things with you to be honest. I'm quite happy and don't need the last word. I was done being 12 years of age over 10 years ago.

You said you buy random girls drinks, now you are saying you get approached then buy them drinks. No wonder, you are probably known as the guy who gives out free drinks to the girls who go leave with other guys. either way, i am getting numbers whilst you are buying drinks for random probably ugly girls, and going back home to watch porn. People here saying it is sad/creepy are deluded, i do it and have not got a bad experience to date, just women who react positively and give their numbers.

Btw about the money thing. I make an amount that is considered very good (Inheritance and my future job sector), If you are spending money to get a girls attention that is plain sad, try talking to a girl instead. I would feel ashamed to need to buy something to get a girls attention, it just means she thinks you are a beta white knight who will buy her stuff.

In a restaurant it is easy.

'When they have finished their drinks can you send another two over there please? Thanks' - to the waiter.

Easy. The waiter if he has a brain and is a wingman and not a cockblock will tell them you sent them over. Easy as that really. You have now gained their attention without looking needy and you have also made it easier to go speak to them. In a lot of situations women often come and talk to you if you do this to say thanks.

These days this type of behaviour commonly leads to complaints and to the waiter being fired.

What bull****. The waiter is delivering drinks. Any complaints would be directed to the person who bought them if the woman took an insta-dislike to the guy who bought them.

Trust me. You might hang out in cheap dives but in any reputable establishment this is treated like sexual harassment that the waiter become complicit in. No doubt in your world; old slappers get drinks delivered by all and sundry but decent women find it intrusive.