One Night Stand and Feelings

This is pretty short but I need some help as I just keep crying.

I need some help. I met a guy, really liked him (as in really really liked him...planned our lives in my head and everything) then we slept together and boom. He has gone. Ignoring my texts and calls, nothing. So I know I got used...but in my head I still imagine our life together which is making the pain even more.

How do I get over him? I keep imagining us together when I know we wont ever be together as he just used me.

Sorry to hear this. To be honest he is a **** and I think you will get over him a lot sooner than if you'd had a relationship with him. And at least you got your oats with him which, from my perspective, is better than being friendzoned. Save your dignity, don't text anymore and get in the saddle gain to look for a decent guy..

I want him

I want him

Let's get real for a second.
Did he suggest to you that he wanted things to get serious between you?
If he did, was this leading to having sex?

From what it sounds like is that you had sex with someone expecting them to love you just because you had sex.

Stop, please. No more assumptions. You had sex that's it. He didn't declare his undying love to you (maybe he did) but it sounds like he just wanted sex.

The best way to deal with this is to accept that having sex with someone doesn't necessarily mean anything but that.

I'm going to give you harsh love.
Get over the guy, you do deserve someone. And clearly if he ignores you, he's not the one.

And please don't have sex with people if you want them to love you, all that will happen is that you'll get upset when they don't return the feelings.

I text him after and he suggested that we should do it again because he really liked me....and has ignored me since. So he gave me false hope

He just wanted to have sex again.
Save your dignity, you're worth more.
Forget him.

But I replied saying yes let's shag again when are you free! And a few times again and still no reply! So I offered him sex!

And there's your queue to spot the obvious


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Let's get real for a second.
Did he suggest to you that he wanted things to get serious between you?
If he did, was this leading to having sex?

From what it sounds like is that you had sex with someone expecting them to love you just because you had sex.

Stop, please. No more assumptions. You had sex that's it. He didn't declare his undying love to you (maybe he did) but it sounds like he just wanted sex.

The best way to deal with this is to accept that having sex with someone doesn't necessarily mean anything but that.

I'm going to give you harsh love.
Get over the guy, you do deserve someone. And clearly if he ignores you, he's not the one.

And please don't have sex with people if you want them to love you, all that will happen is that you'll get upset when they don't return the feelings.

Surely if you have sex with a girl three times in a night and seem to be enjoying yourself you would want to go have it again?

No, I would want to sleep.

These posts are no longer amusing, should've just ended it on a high...


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