Men's fascination with anal?
This is kind of a targeted question for straight males who enjoy anal with women since I relate to it on orientation terms.
But if you are otherwise gay, bisexuality, unsure, or curious, I'm still interested in hearing out your opinion too!
Whether it's just popping a finger or two inside, or going straight down to business, if you like snooping around a women's anal area, I'd love to know how the fascination works!
I'm well aware that some women love anal, but this question is purely for the men's fascination.
But if you are otherwise gay, bisexuality, unsure, or curious, I'm still interested in hearing out your opinion too!
Whether it's just popping a finger or two inside, or going straight down to business, if you like snooping around a women's anal area, I'd love to know how the fascination works!
I'm well aware that some women love anal, but this question is purely for the men's fascination.
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Every holes a goal and all that jazz? God knows 
Tbh, is it not just the whole attraction thing in general. I really wouldn't want to suck a penis if I'm being perfectly honest. Yet lots of straight woman do, whats the fascination there? If you get where I am coming from? I don't think it is a fascination, although porn probably has alot too do with it?
Tbh, is it not just the whole attraction thing in general. I really wouldn't want to suck a penis if I'm being perfectly honest. Yet lots of straight woman do, whats the fascination there? If you get where I am coming from? I don't think it is a fascination, although porn probably has alot too do with it?
Original post by OTTCuriosity
This is kind of a targeted question for straight males who enjoy anal with women since I relate to it on orientation terms.
But if you are otherwise gay, bisexuality, unsure, or curious, I'm still interested in hearing out your opinion too!
Whether it's just popping a finger or two inside, or going straight down to business, if you like snooping around a women's anal area, I'd love to know how the fascination works!
I'm well aware that some women love anal, but this question is purely for the men's fascination.
But if you are otherwise gay, bisexuality, unsure, or curious, I'm still interested in hearing out your opinion too!
Whether it's just popping a finger or two inside, or going straight down to business, if you like snooping around a women's anal area, I'd love to know how the fascination works!
I'm well aware that some women love anal, but this question is purely for the men's fascination.
The ass and boobs give a great deal of sexual attraction as some guys, the ass can be seen as a great turn on and some sort of a fetish for guys, for me I quite like the ass and it just looks really nice and for sex is great, I wouldnt personally do anal, I think its unatural and dirt area, it should be exit only tbh. Since the ass is nice I would do doggy style so I still feel it bouncing against me.
It is my view that the vast majority of women would not welcome a back door visitor. They may well find a little bit of anal stimulation with a finger a great turn on especially when they have their partners penis inside them but that will be enough for most.
I think many men may be misled by popular imagery in porno movies which may lead them to conclude that it is a popular pleasure enjoyed by many women.
In all of my experience, i have only encountered one girl who actively encouraged me to do her in the tea towel holder and she certainly seemed to enjoy it immensely .
Aside from that , there are all the hygiene issues.
Doesnt really appeal to me.
Men often find anal play very stimulating if gently teased by their female partner. Even more so if she is a skilled practitioner in prostate massage. I guarantee no man will hold his load for very long when being stimulated in this way.
I think many men may be misled by popular imagery in porno movies which may lead them to conclude that it is a popular pleasure enjoyed by many women.
In all of my experience, i have only encountered one girl who actively encouraged me to do her in the tea towel holder and she certainly seemed to enjoy it immensely .
Aside from that , there are all the hygiene issues.
Doesnt really appeal to me.
Men often find anal play very stimulating if gently teased by their female partner. Even more so if she is a skilled practitioner in prostate massage. I guarantee no man will hold his load for very long when being stimulated in this way.
It's supposed that it's a lot tighter in there, and that, along with the whole porn thing, is what guys like about giving anal to women. Me and my boyfriend wouldn't even consider anal, as, yes, it's supposed to be an exit only!
I've loved reading all your replies, they're all very interesting! Thank you 
What about the guys who like to pop a finger in a lady's arse, but don't enjoy anal intercourse?
Is it because it's originally, a no go zone which makes it almost forbidden, and anything forbidden makes a man curious?
Keep me posted with your opinions, I love them
What about the guys who like to pop a finger in a lady's arse, but don't enjoy anal intercourse?
Is it because it's originally, a no go zone which makes it almost forbidden, and anything forbidden makes a man curious?
Keep me posted with your opinions, I love them
Apparently because it's "tighter".
I love the shape of a woman's arse. I like them bent over, face down; to hear a moan of pleasure mixed with pain as I push my "gentleman" in. A grimace on the face ending in super-intense, explosive orgasm. What's not to like?
Bum sex is amazing! A great many women like it, and many more would try it, were it not for taboo and Puritan attitudes. It feels like nothing else and of course is not to be mentioned in polite company. Brilliant! *As if* the only reason people do it is "porn". It's rubbish, but this has been referenced a few times already. It's a super-sensitive part of the body that gives us a great deal of stimulation.
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Bum sex is amazing! A great many women like it, and many more would try it, were it not for taboo and Puritan attitudes. It feels like nothing else and of course is not to be mentioned in polite company. Brilliant! *As if* the only reason people do it is "porn". It's rubbish, but this has been referenced a few times already. It's a super-sensitive part of the body that gives us a great deal of stimulation.
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OP why dont you tell us of your experiences?
Original post by OTTCuriosity
This is kind of a targeted question for straight males who enjoy anal with women since I relate to it on orientation terms.
But if you are otherwise gay, bisexuality, unsure, or curious, I'm still interested in hearing out your opinion too!
Whether it's just popping a finger or two inside, or going straight down to business, if you like snooping around a women's anal area, I'd love to know how the fascination works!
I'm well aware that some women love anal, but this question is purely for the men's fascination.
But if you are otherwise gay, bisexuality, unsure, or curious, I'm still interested in hearing out your opinion too!
Whether it's just popping a finger or two inside, or going straight down to business, if you like snooping around a women's anal area, I'd love to know how the fascination works!
I'm well aware that some women love anal, but this question is purely for the men's fascination.
Seems ironic to me that. I wouldnt want to stick my bellend in an arse because quite simply, I dont want to get it covered in thit. A tit**** on the other hand...........
Original post by Anonymous
OP why dont you tell us of your experiences?
Simple as, I've experienced but it does not fascinate me.
It's a fetish for a lot of men which I believe comes from porn. You get all sorts of reasons such as tighter (which is obviously true) and therefore it's more stimulating, kinky, etc. People also like to try something new and spice things up and so they turn to anal sex. Personally, I don't want to do it and prefer to keep that exit only. If my girl wanted some form of anal stimulation during sex, then I will use a finger or two.
So it wasn't a pleasurable experience that you would want to try again?
Original post by OTTCuriosity
Simple as, I've experienced but it does not fascinate me.
So it wasn't a pleasurable experience that you would want to try again?
Original post by HassanD
It's a fetish for a lot of men which I believe comes from porn. You get all sorts of reasons such as tighter (which is obviously true) and therefore it's more stimulating, kinky, etc. People also like to try something new and spice things up and so they turn to anal sex. Personally, I don't want to do it and prefer to keep that exit only. If my girl wanted some form of anal stimulation during sex, then I will use a finger or two.
So it wasn't a pleasurable experience that you would want to try again?
So it wasn't a pleasurable experience that you would want to try again?
That was a past experience with an ex boyfriend, luckily my current boyfriend is too large to fit anywhere else other than the good old traditional hole
I think novelty plays a huge role in what we find sexually attractive. Regular penis in vagina sex in just one position would get boring as **** after a very short while - thus you mix it up, with positions, foreplay, different things, toys etc. Anal is just another novelty. Humans seek out new experiences.
A lot of guys want to try anal just because it's something they don't usually do with a partner or haven't done before - it's something unordinary. Also supposed to be tighter (which is almost always appealing, unless you're particularly well endowed). There's also other things factoring into it like the taboo factor, forbidden, etc, and porn has definitely fetishised anal. In reality, humans have been having anal sex for thousands of years - documented by the Indian kama sutra, the romans, greeks, and ancient egyptians.
A lot of guys want to try anal just because it's something they don't usually do with a partner or haven't done before - it's something unordinary. Also supposed to be tighter (which is almost always appealing, unless you're particularly well endowed). There's also other things factoring into it like the taboo factor, forbidden, etc, and porn has definitely fetishised anal. In reality, humans have been having anal sex for thousands of years - documented by the Indian kama sutra, the romans, greeks, and ancient egyptians.
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It appeals more to my girlfriend than me, i could take it or leave it frankly.
Original post by OTTCuriosity
That was a past experience with an ex boyfriend, luckily my current boyfriend is too large to fit anywhere else other than the good old traditional hole
That's the wrong way round
No cervix in the back, nothing to painfully bang against, hence you can fit in a bigger bloke far easier.
men like anal because of what they see in porn… and the assumption that its going to feel better because its tighter.. this is exactly how porn is misleading.. men who know how to satisfy a woman and have experienced making a woman orgasm usually do not even like anal. not only can a woman not orgasm from it, there is also no natural lubriation, or pulsing contractions (like there are in the vagina). Anal is also less intimate and is missing the gratification from arousing a woman (comparatively speaking)
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