Basically im young and feel like im not enjoying my youth with my girlfriend enough in sexual ways, we have been together 5 years and ive gave her as much attention she wants both in the bedroom and out like fun days out meals or just nice thing and she enjoys them, also she enjoys all these times I dedicate days just fulfil her sexual desires full body massage with oils, candles and then ending in an orgasm but I will not ask for anything after JUST for her and I get none of this back in anyway.
we have sex maybe once every month and that's the most and it starts to frustrate me until I have to tell her we haven't had sex in a while and its like I told her the worst news, ive asked if im doing anything wrong do i need to get fitter or do anything different and she says no im doing everything right she tells me what she enjoys and I do them and she loves it (when we get round to it) but she just says she just doesn't feel like it and she says she will always be this way. now if im in a long term relationship with someone I really like and enjoy time and sex with I kinda wish they would feel the same and I don't want to be looking back in 10 years when things are far worse but im too old to move on and to think maybe someone out there could have loved me better rather than receiving and not giving.
Its not just sex either I can't remember the last time she done something solely thinking of me to make me happy or just little favours, so what do you think am I being stupid is this normal should I be giving some much and getting so little even though I love her?