soooo my bf basically told me he wanked over someone else I THINK

no, irl/ but in front of a room of people. advice pls

Well, everything else you said there wasn't that iffy, but that's actually extremely inconsiderate and rude of your boyfriend to do that, and to simply joke about it to you. Hell, in some peoples eyes (not mine) that would constitute some sort of cheating. It'll be even worse if he KNEW that you were waiting at home for him, yet did that anyways

But, if everything's going well a month later, i'd leave it. If something similar happens like that again, feel free to voice your complaints regarding his actions.

reading the title i wouldnt be bothered either (other than the telling me), but my bf is a musician and did a gig about 3 weeks ago (wedding) that was fairly close by and I stayed at his that night. When he got back I mentioned being grubby (we'd had sex earlier and I hadn't showered yet) and he said 'don't worry, I'm covered in cum too.....I had a **** before soundcheck' which annoyed me slightly in itself - I was at his flat waiting for him to come back. Anyway, a couple of hours later he told me about this kind of photobooth at the reception, and how a girl had gone in front of the camera and lifted up her skirt, his words - 'beavering' the whole room.

I don't know if I'm being silly but I'm just upset that my bf would **** over someone else whilst I'm laid in his bed waiting for him to come home and then basically tell me about it. It was nearly a month ago now and still keeps popping into my head, but I think it's too late to bring up (in case I've got the wrong end of the stick - he's told me before about times hes wanked over me in public.

Another note- we had a row a few months ago because he opened his folders on his PC and there was one full of naked girls on there - I told him I was fine with him looking at other people but rubbing it in my face was too much

In all other areas our relationship is great. I just feel sometimes like I cant openly talk about things. hence this. Ty for reading..

tl;dr - go to another thread, can't explain concisely.

I reckon you should just leave him and find a man whos loyal to you

reading the title i wouldnt be bothered either (other than the telling me), but my bf is a musician and did a gig about 3 weeks ago (wedding) that was fairly close by and I stayed at his that night. When he got back I mentioned being grubby (we'd had sex earlier and I hadn't showered yet) and he said 'don't worry, I'm covered in cum too.....I had a **** before soundcheck' which annoyed me slightly in itself - I was at his flat waiting for him to come back. Anyway, a couple of hours later he told me about this kind of photobooth at the reception, and how a girl had gone in front of the camera and lifted up her skirt, his words - 'beavering' the whole room.

I don't know if I'm being silly but I'm just upset that my bf would **** over someone else whilst I'm laid in his bed waiting for him to come home and then basically tell me about it. It was nearly a month ago now and still keeps popping into my head, but I think it's too late to bring up (in case I've got the wrong end of the stick - he's told me before about times hes wanked over me in public.

Another note- we had a row a few months ago because he opened his folders on his PC and there was one full of naked girls on there - I told him I was fine with him looking at other people but rubbing it in my face was too much

In all other areas our relationship is great. I just feel sometimes like I cant openly talk about things. hence this. Ty for reading..

tl;dr - go to another thread, can't explain concisely.

lol your bf is a bit weird....it's not weird that he jerked off over another girl (pretty much every guy on the planet watches porn)...what's weird is that he told you about it. Tell him to keep that chit to himself, if he wants to continue having the privilege of being inside you.

But he said that he'd wanked and seen a girl's hoohah in separate stories - you've jumped to the conclusion that they're linked. And the girl may well have been unattractive. You're being totally daft.

As for the folder on his PC, he didn't rub it in your face. Sounds like he was looking for something else, you probably saw a dubiously titled folder and asked to see it, so he showed you. If I'm wrong, please do tell me how it actually happened.

I think you think you don't mind him doing certain things in theory, but when you have "proof" he does them it turns out you do mind. E.g. I bet you'd say you don't mind him watching porn, but if you walked in on him doing so or saw it in his search history you'd be upset.

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reading the title i wouldnt be bothered either (other than the telling me), but my bf is a musician and did a gig about 3 weeks ago (wedding) that was fairly close by and I stayed at his that night. When he got back I mentioned being grubby (we'd had sex earlier and I hadn't showered yet) and he said 'don't worry, I'm covered in cum too.....I had a **** before soundcheck' which annoyed me slightly in itself - I was at his flat waiting for him to come back. Anyway, a couple of hours later he told me about this kind of photobooth at the reception, and how a girl had gone in front of the camera and lifted up her skirt, his words - 'beavering' the whole room.

I don't know if I'm being silly but I'm just upset that my bf would **** over someone else whilst I'm laid in his bed waiting for him to come home and then basically tell me about it. It was nearly a month ago now and still keeps popping into my head, but I think it's too late to bring up (in case I've got the wrong end of the stick - he's told me before about times hes wanked over me in public.

Another note- we had a row a few months ago because he opened his folders on his PC and there was one full of naked girls on there - I told him I was fine with him looking at other people but rubbing it in my face was too much

In all other areas our relationship is great. I just feel sometimes like I cant openly talk about things. hence this. Ty for reading..

tl;dr - go to another thread, can't explain concisely.