Bad way to deal with a break up?

It is bad that's I'm ok with the break up because I've told myself that he'll come back? I know I'm probably being delusional and in denial, and it will all hit me at a later date. It's probably not a healthy way to deal with it, but it's working for me currently. The only think preventing me from balling my eyes out all day everyday.

oh, babes, sometimes you have to ball, it'll help, i promise, or it'll hit back a million times harder later, i mean like not getting out of bed, barely eating, or worse, i don't want that for you, and i understand it hurts, i do, but you can't keeping doing this to yourself, ik it hurts but you have to get out and do things with your friends, listen to sad songs, eat a pound of ice cream haha, but.....if you keep pushing through it this way, you'll lead further and further into depression. i promise it's not you. you're enough. you deserve to be happy. you deserve every ounce of happiness, i promise that you were never NOT enough, you are the perfect amount, you don't have to change yourself, and if he couldn't see that, then he didn't deserve you, you'll find someone who'll make you feel good (emotionally), happy, give you enough attention, and who'll make you feel like enough, 'cause in reality, you are, you got this, we're all here for you <3

Why did you break up?

love, sometimes ppl have their problems, it might actually have nothing to do with you 'cause you seem like a wonderful person, but maybe he's stressed? depressed? feels like he's not enough? he may be feeling like you are now

i understand where he's coming from, and i respect, sometimes it's hard to feel super insecure abt the past and if that person actually likes you, i keep feeling like nobody actually cares abt me or if they are just friends with me just to get something out of it, so maybe he feels this way?

sometimes it hurts to deal with it with others, you feel like your useless, or like your not worth the struggle, it's hard to trust after such pain in the past, it's hard to put your problems on others for the fear that they may leave you and think of you as a "pick-me"

even when people tell you things like that, it's hard to trust, people like me think differently, even if my bf were to tell me he loved me, it's hard to trust that he's not with someone else, even tho i know he means it, it's just so hard

Basically he couldn't commit due to being badly hurt in the past. We both really liked eachother and said we'd never felt the same about anyone before, but he has his own stuff he needs to deal with and had to take himself fully out of the situation to deal with it. I'm completely heartbroken but respect his honesty.

It is bad that's I'm ok with the break up because I've told myself that he'll come back? I know I'm probably being delusional and in denial, and it will all hit me at a later date. It's probably not a healthy way to deal with it, but it's working for me currently. The only think preventing me from balling my eyes out all day everyday.

I bet he lied and really only wanted to get in your pants