Do females find males attractive?

i do, indeed find guys attractive. but in terms of what i think you're trying to say is for me, it really depends. i once went on a date with a guy and had to organise everything, was actually a little bit annoyed because he put absolutely no effort into planning (and was late anyway. protip: never be late), however with one guy i was really into i was flattered by him say, wiping cake off my nose in a romantic movie way, asking me for a hug, but then i was the one who approached him for an actual date (it had all been flirting up until then), but some girls would wait for the guy. i know plenty of girls who are SO INTO GUYS but REFUSE to make the first move! I say, regardless of gender, if you like someone, make a move.

that being said, on the other end of the spectrum there is this guy who used to be my friend but he's meandered into the 'total creep' area. he wont stop 'casually' asking me to go places, waiting for me, etc, and backpeddling everytime i say no, can't take any hints from me. i am one step away from being a bitch to him.

basically, what my rambling is trying to say is...there is no set answer. you really have to read into a girl's social cues. YES, you probably do flatter her, ask her out, chances are even if she isnt in to you she'll be flattered and at least have a confidence boost.

if you don't like making all the plans, then why not tell whoever you are dating? its healthy to communicate. i actually dont think i answered your question now come to think about it. sorry.