I asked her out, now she's changed.

So I asked this girl out and she didn't say yes or no just thankyou. Anyway her personality to me has completely changed she looks embarrassed when I look at her, doesn't speak to me, generally seems distant avoids looking at me, and asometimes when she does she will look then I will look at her and she won't hold eye contact and look away. She has gone quiet around me, when I try to speak to her she often replies rudely. She is just a lot less interacting with me

Reply 1

username1539513

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She's probably not into you at all and now feels awkward around you because she had to reject you

Reply 2

Death Grips

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Original post by Anonymous

So I asked this girl out and she didn't say yes or no just thankyou. Anyway her personality to me has completely changed she looks embarrassed when I look at her, doesn't speak to me, generally seems distant avoids looking at me, and asometimes when she does she will look then I will look at her and she won't hold eye contact and look away. She has gone quiet around me, when I try to speak to her she often replies rudely. She is just a lot less interacting with me

She turned you down mate.

Now the appropriate course of action is for you to delete her from your memory.

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Reply 3

Anonymous #1

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That's fine. Surely though that doesn't mean it's normal to behave like this. I feel like I'm hated by her, afterall I only offered to take her out for lunch. What's so bad about that?

Reply 4

UWS

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Original post by Anonymous

That's fine. Surely though that doesn't mean it's normal to behave like this. I feel like I'm hated by her, afterall I only offered to take her out for lunch. What's so bad about that?

You must know that every girl reacts differently to being asked out. Depending on her personality, she may want to avoid you because she may feel awkward being around you which is most likely the case here.

I'd just ignore it and concentrate elsewhere.