After my breakup, I had a period of time when I was just going out and getting very drunk, with rebound sex and generally just trying to fill the void in my life with alcohol.
I decided one day that I wanted to try out having casual sex with a escort/prostitute. To my surprise, it was not what I expected. The girl I met was a recent university graduate too. I have seen her for 5 months now and I started having feelings for her. I know it is sort of her job to make me go back to her and it is not a substitute for a real relationship. However, I can't stop thinking about her. I just really regret thinking it would just be a case of easy and unattached sex.
I took time off work to go travelling with some friends from abroad, I had many opportunities abroad to have one night stands. But, I just couldn't snap out of the way i was feeling. My gut tells me that the girl I am paying for sex does not really see me as anything more than money. I know all of the affection is fake because that is her job. And that the girls who are genuinely interested in me I have pushed away. However, my mind is just torturing me and not allowing me to let go.
She is stopping escorting soon but has agreed to see me when she can in the same arrangement we have been having. She is in a long distance relationship with a boyfriend she is cheating on... I know its bad but I can't turn off how i feel despite logic telling me it is a terrible idea. And I know. I am paying her. But I don't really want anyone else and that is the problem.
I just don't know this however: how the hell did this happen to me? I know she must be good at seducing men but it's crazy because in real everyday life even with previous girlfriends I never really felt the out of control feeling I have been having these past few months. This time, it is like I have been hit by a train.
I tried to even picture her sleeping with old men as she does, but even then, I can't stop liking her. For all I know she could think I am a ****, but my logical mind is not letting me come to terms with that.