Hi Guys
Just wondering if you could help me out here?
So Im 17yrs old (male) and dont want to be arrogant but
many people say I have a rly nice personality.I am very confident (often start conversations with strangers/people in older years/girls) and also kind ( I genuinely believe in doing the right thing and helping ppl out cos we're all in it together)
I make many jokes in my conversations (not world class comedy but I try my best haha) and I dont try too hard either. ( I compliment ppl if I truly think they deserve it and dont flatter ppl) . I also have varied hobbies in music and sport.
However Im not traditionally attractive. Im 5'6(shortish), have quite a lot of acne (not medically severe but just on the heavy side) , wear glasses and am easily on the thin side. (not medically severe just thin lol)
Also I dont have a lot of friends, just 3/4 closish acquaintances which might put ppl off being a loner mostly. Objectively Im a 6.5/10. (not unconfident, just objective)
Thing is, the girls Ive like all have great personalities (they are kind, genuine, out going and humorous) but are also
very pretty.Not make up pretty with a hot body just
stunningly beautiful naturally. Ive asked 2 of these type of girls over the years and both rejected me.
(In both cases, we were friends before and we seemed to have chemistry but obviously not to the extent I thought)
My question is,
am I just too ambitious? I know I have a good personality being confident and kind but I know Im not blessed with
great looks/body by any means, am I simply asking ppl out of my league since they have
both personality and looks? thanks for any help/opinions