Really insecure about my height..

Hey I'm almost 6'1 in height and I'm insecure about this because some of my mates are taller than me and there's this girl who's an inch or two taller than me, I really like her and want to ask her out but I feel like i might get rejected and that my mates might have a better chance than me.

Reply 1

AuroraNyx

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Hey, it could be worse. You could be a 5'7 "manlet" that can barely date anyone!

Reply 2

Bored123456789

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Original post by Anonymous7932

Hey I'm almost 6'1 in height and I'm insecure about this because some of my mates are taller than me and there's this girl who's an inch or two taller than me, I really like her and want to ask her out but I feel like i might get rejected and that my mates might have a better chance than me.

Judging chances of getting a girl based solely on height 😂😂😂

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

You could be 18 and be 5'2

Reply 4

Bulletzone

22

OP lives in a Basketball School.

Reply 5

Asha_19

20

If it's meant to be then it's meant to be

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by CatrinSuyin

Literally me 4’11” I beat you (I’m a girl doe so yanno)

Same ahaha. How are you so small? I'm small cause I was born 3.5 months early lmao

Reply 7

JDieMstr

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When somebody thinks their height will solely decide whether they land the girl or not...tsk tsk, if there's no face to go with it, you may as well be a lanky lamp post.

Reply 8

markovchain17

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Original post by CastCuraga

Hey, it could be worse. You could be a 5'7 "manlet" that can barely date anyone!

Lol 5' 7" is fine. The dating scene gets worse below 5' 5"

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Reply 9

Anonymous7932

OP

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My problem is that I just want to be a few inches taller, I don't want to feel intimidated by taller women.

Reply 10

markovchain17

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Original post by Anonymous7932

My problem is that I just want to be a few inches taller, I don't want to feel intimidated by taller women.

Looks like uve been caught up in the whole macho masculinity thing and u can't bear to think of women taller than u. I'm 5' 7" and my ex was 6' 1" and I did not feel intimidated by her at all. Have some confidence nd ask that gal out and I bet she wants to be the little spoon anyway.

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Reply 11

AuroraNyx

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Original post by markovchain17

Lol 5' 7" is fine. The dating scene gets worse below 5' 5"

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Guess I'm still not used to being out of England where everyone was like 6'0+ lol. 5'5 does seem pretty difficult

I mean ideally it'd be nice to go "man nah I don't wanna date someone that cares about height" but to an extent a lot of people do

So RIP us tbh

Reply 12

Anonymous7932

OP

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Original post by markovchain17

Looks like uve been caught up in the whole macho masculinity thing and u can't bear to think of women taller than u. I'm 5' 7" and my ex was 6' 1" and I did not feel intimidated by her at all. Have some confidence nd ask that gal out and I bet she wants to be the little spoon anyway.
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I'm 18 btw, do you think I might grow taller?
This whole thing's making me paranoid.

Reply 13

markovchain17

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Original post by Anonymous7932

I'm 18 btw, do you think I might grow taller?
This whole thing's making me paranoid.

Uve got to learn to accept who you are and embrace it. 6' 1" is on the tall end of heights, the vast, vast majority of women are shorter than you. Just anaylse ur thoughts for a second: What EXACTLY about her being a couple inches taller is making you intimidated?

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Reply 14

AuroraNyx

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Original post by Anonymous7932

I'm 18 btw, do you think I might grow taller?
This whole thing's making me paranoid.

I can understand it, but trust me - you broke the 6'0 mark, that's as much as most women even want. If this isn't the right one I'm pretty sure there'll be plenty that like you for it

Reply 15

CatrinSuyin

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Original post by Anonymous

Same ahaha. How are you so small? I'm small cause I was born 3.5 months early lmao

I literally have no clue, doubt anything was wrong with me at birth. My younger sister is taller than me by like 4 inches as well. Ah well you just gotta embrace it and love it

Reply 16

CatrinSuyin

5

Your height is one of the only things you can’t change about yourself so the only way you can get over it is to just accept it really, its not a bad thing and dont let it lower your confidence

Get knee surgery

Is this a troll thread? :p:

Lol seriously, 6ft1 is basically the ideal height. As others have said, if you were like 5ft6 or something, then your dating changes would be seriously seriously affected and I'd understand you being insecure.

But being insecure about 6ft1 is ridiculous lol.

Reply 19

Anonymous7932

OP

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Original post by markovchain17

Uve got to learn to accept who you are and embrace it. 6' 1" is on the tall end of heights, the vast, vast majority of women are shorter than you. Just anaylse ur thoughts for a second: What EXACTLY about her being a couple inches taller is making you intimidated?
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How can I accept it? My elder brother is 6'5, my dad is 6'4 and my uncle's like 6'3 too. One of my cousins is taller than me too. I'm only taller than my sisters and my mum. I want to be as tall as them....

(edited 6 years ago)

Really insecure about my height..

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