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How do I lose my virginity

I’m 16 and I really wanna do it, i’m ready so save the talk about doing it with someone you love blah blah. but idk how to meet guys. I’ve not had a proper boyfriend before either, I go to an all girls school so I’m not sure where to find a guy for me to have sex with...not a creep or anything though obviously. I’m not looking for anything serious either. i’m okay looking and i have a pretty good body so how would I go on about finding someone? btw I don’t go to house parties and don’t know people who go to those

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it's not that big of an achievement is it
Reply 2
By having sex.

Meet guys through clubs (school related or non-school related).
Reply 3
Original post by Anonymous
I’m 16 and I really wanna do it, i’m ready so save the talk about doing it with someone you love blah blah. but idk how to meet guys. I’ve not had a proper boyfriend before either, I go to an all girls school so I’m not sure where to find a guy for me to have sex with...not a creep or anything though obviously. I’m not looking for anything serious either. i’m okay looking and i have a pretty good body so how would I go on about finding someone? btw I don’t go to house parties and don’t know people who go to those


You probably will never lose it. Sorry but that's the sad reality of life. Look at me, I'm 28 and still a virgin and I've been rejected by every girl I've gone after. It's really, really, really tough, next to impossible to lose it. And eventually you reach my age and lay awake at night, sometimes crying yourself to sleep, wondering why you're alone, what you did to deserve this loneliness, especially when you see all your friends and family are in happy relationships (with the assumption that they're having sex in those relationships) 😟
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Original post by Ray_Shadows
it's not that big of an achievement is it


It is for those of us who have not lost it.
Reply 5
Original post by UWS
By having sex.

Meet guys through clubs (school related or non-school related).


Having sex? No **** Sherlock. Got any more words of wisdom James? 🙌
Reply 6
Original post by jay2013
Having sex? No **** Sherlock. Got any more words of wisdom James? 🙌


Not really, it was tongue-in-cheek and I already told her where to look.
Either by being worth having sex with, or making yourself that.

There's something wrong with you if you think this is the ultimate achievement at the fresh young age of 16. All people your age will be inexperienced and so you're only looking to be disappointed- wait until the right one comes along, I'd say.
why do you want to do this? a one time popo and then what?
why dont u try going on a dating website and on ur profile say that 'You are looking to get laid, no strings attached but P.S. im a newbie when it comes to that stuff', that could work for u
Original post by jay2013
You probably will never lose it. Sorry but that's the sad reality of life. Look at me, I'm 28 and still a virgin and I've been rejected by every girl I've gone after. It's really, really, really tough, next to impossible to lose it. And eventually you reach my age and lay awake at night, sometimes crying yourself to sleep, wondering why you're alone, what you did to deserve this loneliness, especially when you see all your friends and family are in happy relationships (with the assumption that they're having sex in those relationships) 😟


wtf????
Regardless of how this goes just be ready to be disappointed with the outcome sex is great and all but your first time is (for most people from what I have experienced) is the worst time
Original post by TheGirlFelonXxXx
why dont u try going on a dating website and on ur profile say that 'You are looking to get laid, no strings attached but P.S. im a newbie when it comes to that stuff', that could work for u


Anonymous OP claims to be 16. They can only use sites that would allow that age, depending on where they live this could even be illegal...
Original post by jay2013
It is for those of us who have not lost it.


Original post by Anonymous
I’m 16 and I really wanna do it, i’m ready so save the talk about doing it with someone you love blah blah. but idk how to meet guys. I’ve not had a proper boyfriend before either, I go to an all girls school so I’m not sure where to find a guy for me to have sex with...not a creep or anything though obviously. I’m not looking for anything serious either. i’m okay looking and i have a pretty good body so how would I go on about finding someone? btw I don’t go to house parties and don’t know people who go to those


Anonymous, Jay
Jay, Anonymous
if you're that desperate to lose your virginity-
SELL IT!
Like wth this is the business opportunity of a life time!!!! Do you realise how much money you can make by selling your virginity. There are literally, creepy 50 year olds that would pay 100k plus for 3 mins (maybe more with Viagra or some other ****)

Spoiler

- write 'virginity' on a piece of paper
- start walking and drop it somewhere

(+ ask someone to find it for you and throw it in the bin because littering is no good kiddos)
Original post by jay2013
You probably will never lose it. Sorry but that's the sad reality of life. Look at me, I'm 28 and still a virgin and I've been rejected by every girl I've gone after. It's really, really, really tough, next to impossible to lose it. And eventually you reach my age and lay awake at night, sometimes crying yourself to sleep, wondering why you're alone, what you did to deserve this loneliness, especially when you see all your friends and family are in happy relationships (with the assumption that they're having sex in those relationships) 😟


bro you cant be serious can you??
sausage in the hole
Original post by Anonymous
sausage in the hole


me_irl
Original post by Mighty SSD
bro you cant be serious can you??


(it's sad that he probably is serious, and he's taking it out on us)

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