During the first two weeks or so, I was really soaking up the Uni life. I would go out almost every day (which is pretty amazing, considering before I used to only ever go out once a week or so). Even when I had no one to go with, I would get on a bus to the next city over or something. It felt good. Now, however, I'm back to my old ways of finishing a lecture and spending the rest of the day loping around in my accommodation. A big part of this is down to the fact that I no longer have free bus travel, so I can't be going out so much. Also the fact that even though I'm just 4 weeks in, the workload is insane.
I made a small group of friends during the first week but they are sort of "sanctioning off" and leaving me out, not inviting me to places etc. I accidentally noticed that they even created a new group chat without me, which was pretty painful.
I made friends with a handful of guys, but they have gone down one of two routes; scraped when they figured out that I wasn't looking for a romantic relationship, didn't want to smash, or both OR super flirty to the point where I'm extremely uncomfortable and reluctant to hang out with them. I have met other girls in societies but it never goes beyond small talk, and they have all established their own friendship groups from lectures, flatmates etc.
I am starting to feel all the excitement seeping away. I had high expectations for uni. I thought I'd make friends who I could really connect with....