Feel like people don’t want to be friends with me bc I’m ugly?

It's more likely because you have a "somewhat great personality".

Met up with this girl and she stopped talking to me after we met up so I can’t help but think she must think I’m unattractive and doesn’t wanna hang out with me

Why do you immediately go to looks as the reason?

What else could it be? It can’t be my personality, I made the most effort to talk to her and keep the conversation going whilst she was texting away on her phone the whole time

Why can't it be your personality?

I know you think you have a 'great' personality but that doesn't mean people are going to like you.

Okay so it’s them and not me.

No, it could very well be you

Okay so it’s them and not me.

Okay elaborate then

It could be you, just because someone doesn't like you doesn't mean the problem is with them by default.

Yes and I’m asking you how exactly is it me? Is it my personality, my looks, my race/ethnicity? Because you don’t just not ‘like’ someone if you don’t even know them

How would I know how it's you?

These people might have just stopped talking to you because they didn't like what they saw and decided not to pursue any further interaction.

You seem to be avoiding the possibility it's you in favour of far-reaching claims that the people you interact with are either shallow or racist.

Are you at university or school?

They could well be...shallow and racist people do exist